Finding a lover

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Is it normal to feel like you're going to be lover-less for the rest of your life?

The way I see it is I am going to be 22, I've never been kissed and never had a boyfriend, so what says that things will ever change?

I don't think I am especially pretty, but my friends tell me I am. I am blonde, fit, and 5'9'', so I can only assume that at some point in time someone must have been at least physically attracted to me. So, the problem is social. I don't party and I'm shy and awkward with new people. What to do? My two sisters are in relationships and I hate that I can't have what makes them so happy. I want a lover too! What can I do?

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Based on 80 votes (64 yes)
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  • Vyzr
    13 years ago

    Normal. Im sure someone will have love at first sight or if they talk to you alittle they will fall in love.

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  • Ringpullguy1000
    13 years ago

    If you're happy with yourself then try to find someone who likes you how you are, you may or may not have a lover but if you're not happy with yourself then of course you're gonna be unhappy alone.
    My point is don't jump into anything If you don't love yourself first, otherwise you're both gonna be miserable

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  • Lola_Love
    13 years ago

    y. im 20 and i feel as though im never gonna be in love again. I had/have one true love but its not really working out. I feel like i will never be happy, have kids, get married. Year by year I have to spend valentines day, christmas, birthdays, new years, easters ALONE!! && its so painful

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  • flirtygal67
    13 years ago

    I didn't mean to put no

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Being an antisocial person myself I can say the best thing you can do is try to be a little bit more social. Maybe hang with friends that have guy friends (single ones) and you might find someone. That's how I found my man of a year <3

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  • grumpybarbie
    14 years ago

    Get out more!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Just be yourslelf, if they don't like u, there prob, not yours

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