Fight for love or accept defeat once again!

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Me and my boyfriend are so deeply in love with each other but he lives clear across states. We've been talking for about a year now and he seems like no other guy ive met. But I find myself doubting whether i should give it my all or accept defeat and give up. We havent seen each other yet and i brought up the topic about when we were going to see each other because i get extremely lonely and i need that physcial contact to satisfy my every need. Sometimes it drives me crazy and i cry because i so badly want to be with him. I think most of the fustrations is from me. I bring up problems that bother me and sometimes i want to end things with him but deep down inside i know im not ready to leave him alone better yet be alone. i dont want to hurt him by breaking things off, i know i make him sad everytime i get depressed about our relationship but he constantly tells me that he loves and wants me. Then on top people keep telling me that long distance relationshhips never work. my boyfriend said dont listen to them and have faith because he does. Is it normal to want to give up on a relationship sometimes, when the guy is a good person and hasnt done anything wrong but your surely afraid to give your all and things might go badly?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    It is normal to fear it. But that is why you try to make it work. Come up with a way to make you desire yours. You can do it. Google is your friend. It has tons of answers and you will need a job if you don't have one. And try to finish any schooling you are going through first.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Thanks school is right around the corner. Its nice to hear someone give positive advice to me for a change.

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