Fiance seems to get "weird" after sex...even before

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I have been with my fiance for awhile now. I actually am his first partner/ relationship ( Because he wanted to wait for the right girl ), although I have been with one other guy which was for 3 years. Anyway, right before sex he will be all into it and hard etc, then when we go to put the condom on he gets soft and I have to do things again to make him the same way...( not sure if that is normal?) And the sex itself is great. But afterwards, he acts kind of weird. ( It may also just be me worrying! ) But typically he is a WONDERFUL man, very loving, respectful, puts me first, does everything he can as well as sacrifice whatever it takes to make me happy. But after sex he kind of seems to focus on that only in conversation. I.E - earlier he was all like " Of course we are okay, I wouldn't do the most wonderful girl in the world if we weren't" So is that strange, or should I be concerned??? Thanks!

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    that does sound a little odd, maybe talk to him when you haven't just had sex?

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  • KingTermite
    8 years ago

    The whole OP either lacked information or didn't make sense. Is he in his 60's? If so, maintaining an erection may be difficult for him. I don't think the guy is that old, but no information that would be helpful in determining the source of his erectile dysfunction was given.

    Then all that blither blather about "doing the most beautiful girl" what was all of that? A little context would help to understand whatever the fuck it was you were trying to get at.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    so he wants to talk to you after sex...
    and you think it's weird?

    would it be better if he rolled over and ignored you?

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