Feminine way of thinking - is it normal to feel offended?

What is it about it that bothers you? If you told us we'd be able to give more useful answers instead of repeating each other.

Sorry I misread your posting...my fault...but nonetheless, it doesnt take away from my point.

You may think it is just your personal beliefs, but logically speaking we live a society and are conditioned through the media and through the way our parents raised us and (sometimes) through our religious beliefs that the female mind and they way it process information is inferior to that of our male counterparts. We form our opinions and belief systems based on the information we receive from outside sources and we draw conclusions based on that. So no matter which way you cut it, your beliefs, my beliefs, everyone's beliefs are take root in what we have been exposed to and taught.

Women and men, as you know are biologically very different creature, and have different thought processes and different ways of dealing with problems. Women for instance, usually have the need to verbalize their thoughts since we typically have more thoughts than men and need to organize them verbally.We are also more emotional than Men. Men on the other hand, they tend to categorize things and have the ability to think of one particular thing at a time.

Men have perpetuated this myth, however, that we women are emotional basket cases who dont know how to problem solve. This myth has spread through out society and therefore, the female thought pattern and way or dealing with things is seen by both men and women alike to be an inferior way of thinking with no real logic, when in fact this is simply not true. It all has to do with perception. For instance we women tend to think that talking things out with our male partners when we have an issue and to address the issue right away and to talk about we each other "feels" is the best way of dealing with a problem. However, male minds would much rather mull the situation over on their heads and solve the issue as if it were a math problem than talk about it. Does that mean that his way of thinking and problem solving is superior to that of a woman's...not at all. It just the right way for HIM to solve and understand the problem at hand. Just as it is the right way for women to problem solving by verbalizing their thoughts and taking about the emotions they feel. Emotions are a great indicator of what is wrong with a situation and discussing feels or emotions help women understand theor won thoughts and why they are feeling the way they feel better. The reason why men have perpetuated this myth that their though process is superiors is because they REALLY DONT GET HOW FEMALE MINDS WORK AND THEY DONT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO WOMEN. We live in a male dominated society, whether or not we like to admit it and there is still a lot of female oppression and disregard for how intelligent women actually are. In short, they have succeeded in you feeling contempt for your own sex. Remember its all about perception. Whats works for men most often than not will not work for women, that doesnt mean the way a woman thinks is inferior.