Female virginity - turn on or turn off?
Guys, is it a turn on or a turn off for you when a female is a virgin?
| turn on | 449 | |
| turn off | 92 | |
| neutral | 195 |
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Gebruikersnaam
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anti-hero
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anon199
Whilst fapping - turn on.
If it was just one time, no strings, massive turn on.
Real life - total pain in the neck.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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Thinwhiteduke
I remember when I took my ex- gf 'so virginity. It was so hard getting my dick in her pussy. I couldn't even cum it was so painful for her. It wasn't until the next day that I got my dick in all the way. She cried and I just felt so good being inside her for the first time. When I pulled out I remember the blood on the tip of the condom. I jack off a lot to that.
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prasatko
I have always preferred non-virgins. Reasons: I love when both of us enjoy it without having to think whether this is the right/special time or whether I am the right/special person for her super-event in her life, without having to be careful not to hurt her physically or emotionally, other reasons: inhibitions, her potential guilt feelings afterwards. I have dated just one virgin in my life and I almost ended up in a madhouse. Nevermore....
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IrishPotato
The thing with virgins is though, they don't know what they want. And frankly, I like to be told what they like.
Although on the other side, it's quite fun to teach someone.
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AssBurgers
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watt_bro
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prasatko
I would prefer to be the last sexual partner of my girlfriend (long-term relationship), not her first. Statistically speaking, most women have more than one partner in their lifetime, so if you are with a virgin, you must expect that other men will follow your route sooner or later, so with a virgin you should expect that 1.either you will break up sooner or later or 2.she will cheat on you sooner or later or 3.both... So instead of jealousy of her past you have to face jealousy of her future.
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Gelmurag
Major turn-on for me. Actually...almost a requirement. My "Max" number of guys a girl has been with before me is 2. Anything more than that and I wouldn't be interested.
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forkchicken91
Err... why? What is so different about a women after she has had sex? Or a man for that matter? I could understand the novelty of being the first person somebody has has with, that is very hot. But to genuinely lose interest in a person because they have had sex with multiple people before... that is odd to me. Care to enlighten me?
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Gelmurag
It is an experience issue for me. I'm not very experienced, and I expect the person I'm with to want to be curious about things sexually. Partly because it would allow me to explore them, and allow them to explore me so we both learn what feels good and doesn't together. Not someone who already knows what they like. It also has something to do with expectations. That one person that rocked their world...I wouldn't even remotely be capable of measuring up to that. And then it comes down to size. If they've been with a vast number of people, they'll have a specific size in mind they want. Again, I know I don't add up in that department.
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forkchicken91
Wow, that's actually very insightful. I'd say I agree with you that discovering your partner as they discover you sounds amazing.
But as for size, it really isn't a big deal. Sure, the minority of members that happen to be large may physically be a bit more satisfying to some women (up to a certain point that varies woman to woman). But great sex is not all about physical pleasure. Society has made the idea of having a large member FAR overrated. I recommend this article:
http://www.sexpertslounge.com/2012/07/08/the-components-of-magnificent-sex/
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IrishPotato
Is it going to be the same when you have had more experience?
You can't really be picky though. I got a friend, Mollie. And on one of her articles I read that you were surprised, like it doesn't happen often that a girl talks to you.
My point is, you don't have alot of female contact. Can you really be this picky?
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Gelmurag
Well it also depends on some other factors. If the above mentioned things weren't a concern to her, our personalities were compatible, and we've known each other for a long time (over 7 months as an example) the chances she would let me explore her are increased/ I would be willing to be with her.
I have a few good female friends. One has lesser experience and cares more about the emotions she experiences with people. Another has 40+ guys experience, and is looking for a specific size, stamina, and even body shape. So I've seen both sides.
As far as Mollie goes, I could make an exception to my "no more than" 3 rule for her. I've not spoken to her long enough to really make any judgements, but she doesn't strike me as a malicious person. If you speak to her in real life, tell her to check her e-mail more often ><
I do have female contact, but usually end up "a brother." Not having a job/car/still living at home right now doesn't help either. Oh, and I prefer not to meet women at bars. Libraries maybe, but not bars. Besides, I'm focusing on career right now anyway, once that's taken care of everything else will fall into place. And I always have a few tricks up my sleeve.
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IrishPotato
Oh yes I agree. I hate the whole bar-scene.
Getting along with girls, the attraction, and all that, usually comes naturally. And in bars it's all just so...forced.
I met a girl in a library one, she was awesome.I'll tell her, me and her see eachother atleast a few times a week. She's quite special if you ask me ^^.
I'll be going to the same school aswell soon C:I can imagine how you'll feel...like you won't be good enough. You don't feel secure about your own sexual abilities thus you think others are better.
Trust me on this though. If you'll find her pleasure, more important then yours, you'll be fine and she'll enjoy it more then you think.If a girl slept with 40 different dudes (whoring out much?) she probably slept with randomers in bars.
Those people are often selfish simpletons, lasting for not more then 5 minutes fucking only for their goal to fuck.Now you come in. You want to please her, you want to give her the best time she ever had. And you will.
She's used to selfish men who fuck to cum, but you...you're different. You want to please and, and please her you shall.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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Gelmurag
She is an incredible person, at least what I know of her so far. You can tell her I said that lol.
I always think about the woman first. It is part of the reason I get turned down. "You're too nice, I need someone not as safe...someone a little more adventurous. But we can still be friends, I really want that" --Story of my life basically. Most women 10-28 prefer a "bad boy" type of guy. I'm a fat nerd that is nice. So the complete opposite what females are attracted to. (I've only met 1 that doesn't like "bad boys" and prefers the safer nerdier guy, and you talk to her often...)
The 40 + girl did it with her co-workers because she was bored, a mechanic to get her car fixed for free, blah blah. She claims she wants a relationship, but i told her as long as her legs are open, she won't find it. She didn't listen. Ohwell. I have better people to spend my time talking to.
If I could give someone the world, I would. Sure I have some different ideas about raising a family...but that doesn't mean I wouldn't give them all everything of me. Its also partly why I'm not actively seeking out a relationship right now. Part of giving my everything is sharing material goods too, and not being able to afford that cruise, or car, or dinner and a movie, or trip to a museum makes me feel ashamed. I guess i want someone I can share my life with, and they can share theirs with me. It goes beyond "just someone there."
lol you can tell her all that too.
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IrishPotato
Hmm. I wonder. How come you want me to pass everything onto her?
Anyway.
Mollie's type...variates. There's me, and some other people.
I guess me and her are alike that way, we're both open minded and our taste is very wide.
I don't think either me, or she has a certain "type".Anyway, you sound like a great guy tbh.
I guess we think alike, thinking idealistic about relationships. Wanting to share your life, instead of just having a fling or dating. We move too far, for the other person.Correct me if I'm wrong here.
We're alike in alot of ways you know, regarding your view on things.Comment Hidden ( show )
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TheTraveller
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lufa
Yes a prefer a virgin-it's a new experience for them and so it's more fun for me.
The best sex actually happens after doing it a few times because then you get to know each other's bodies and what you like and dislike. Kind of like dancing.
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DJLJMAN
if i met a girl and she was a virgin i would be very happy to know im the first guy shes done it with and no other man has penetrated her before me
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ccjigsaw
I know a virgin, and she ain't no "inoccent peach" She's a slut in any other way she can be.. and this tight shit is bull crap... Just syain. Only reasons she would have been tight is cause she was scared it would hurt. The vagina is a muscle, she can flex and tighten it if she wants to, it doesn't get looser by having sex with it, just like the muscle on your arm wont loosen up cause you had sex with it either. Lose your v-cards already guys, your comments are embarassing >.>'
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Flaze
I would definitely want to take a girl's virginity anyday over fucking someone who has been around the block too many times.
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Mmmpfh
If I was just in it for the sex then I wouldn't care but in a relationship it is such a relief to hear a woman you like is a virgin. So much less jealousy to deal with! Unspoiled innocence (for the most part)! The sex will be awesome (if you get that far)! :B
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Peos2014
Turn on, of course. But I think is not necessary a girl to stay virgin until the marriage.
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Poes
Nothing like a tight pussy, I enjoy the cringing when I finally shove it all they way into those undiscovered folds!
The slight crying also gets me harder than a pick axe!
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anonguy652
i dont mind either way
a virgin would be okay because she would be fresh and pure plus they have an innocence to them
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sweeie
I like those who are experienced to sex, and virgin females won'tt really enjoy the feel first time, that's just how the vagina works
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Ryan556
I think it's good to do it with a virgin the first time so you both suck cock and yes guys the first time you have sex it's as injoyable as well a shark eating your Wang relly I'm a guy and my gf was a virgin (wink wink) but she said I sucked cock I said I didn't know what i was doing you get better but virginty uh nuterl becaus it dosent relly matter that much it's better for your first time XD
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