Female fat admirer, normal or not?

This is highly normal. I myself can't deal with skinny guys and I'm a plus size girl (size 16). I love chunky guys and it's not mentally unstable to either. Screw your friends thinking it's weird. It's wonderful because you know what you want. Now what's not fair is being with a guy who's not what you prefer and imagine him bigger. It's not fair to either one of you sweety, so don't do that to yourself. You know what you want. Now go after it. So many large guys have low self confidence cause they can't find anyone. Find yourself a good one, they're usually nice and sweet *wink*

I'm the same exact way, its a preference! totally normal. The weight does fall into being a bit extreme though, it would cause health risks so maybe go for one a bit under that. I currently have a boyfriend thats hubby and its the best :) seriously, more to love and comfy! and you dont feel like you have to worry excesively about working out and how you look because generally larger guys are more easy going with that stuff so its just really nice!

I'm a small girl as well, totally healthy and stable. I prefer sex with fat guys, if I'm dating a thin guy the only way I can orgasm is if I imagine a fat guy. Struggling up stairs with his huge belly or eating. Turns me on so much and I have no idea why. Told my currently skinny bf and he was cool with it but said if I wanted to fuck fat dudes on the side it's cool lol

It's a shame most women don't like us fat guys. I myself like skinny women and find it impossible to find one who likes fat guys. I'm 5'3" and weigh 321 pounds and considered obese. I wish the skinny women in the Rochester, N.Y. area would see me differently than they do because they make me feel so repulsive and it makes your heart ache.

It's not a Fetish , it's not like liking leather or cuffs or whatever; it's just an innocent preference. It's liking blondes or brunettes or guys who like girls with big butts or stuff like that. Just embrace it

Wish I knew you, I'm over 500 pounds and need me a loving woman. Let mgr know if you live in california.

normal everyone has fetishes or specific tastes it could be your way of insuring you ahve a man that can protec tyou too

The people who find it weird just see it that way because they don't find it attractive. Most girls are afraid to admit this because they don't want others to think that they have a mental problem like you do. I am a curvy muscular girl and I find boys that are the same way are very attractive.

it''s just a preference. i personally wouldn't be able to go there because i'm too shallow. i have a really close friend, one of my best friends for over 20 years and when we were kids he had a big crush on me. i would never be anything more than his friend because he was/is fat,not just chubby but super fat. i always wished i could have looked passed that because he is such a great guy and i have been with plenty a good looking asshole since then and am currently married to one.you could find the love of your life because you are willing to give someone a chance that dumb shallow bitches like myself would pass over.

Just make sure you're on top. Wouldn't want any late-night calls for the ambulance.

Every human being on this planet, has their preferences. And, the right to pursue them. Pursue love, lust, happiness however you see fit. As long as you aren't harming anyone, go for it.

To me, it's an innocent preference. At age 42, I weigh about 260 pounds. Send a message to me as soon as you can if you are up to it. Thanks!

some women enjoy the weight of a fat guy (or fat girl)pressing down, squasing with the belly or some.Some BBW or SSBBW "squashing" the client(usualy man,some women) for money,some videos the "squasher" squish the "squashee". Unfortunately no mens "squashers".

Go with what you like. Seriously, big guys need all the love they can get! I got a friend who's been turned down on that note before, it really bites.

Besides, if it doesn't hurt you or others around you what's the harm?

And WTF? Mental instability? No.

HEY WHAT THE HELL MORE TO LOVE RIGHT!!!!

i think you are a tad too picky but hey
thats normal :)

if it wasnt for you girls fat guys wouldnt
be so "jolly"

J.A.S

I think it is pretty normal.. I would rather be with a bigger guy than a skinny guy any day of the week.. It is a matter of preference and has absolutely nothing got to do with "mental instability"!

this is normal

i think it is jus ur preference, it does not make u mental just because you like them better, i encourage you to like them because it will make you happy and that's all that matters