Feeling worthless over an expected result

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In the past, I have had a thing for teachers.. Older women.. That type thing.

I was an attractive young girl at the time, but obviously got turned down.

When I hear of people having affairs and what not with their teachers it really saddens me because it makes me think I wasn't attractive enough, even though I was.

My mind gives me these delusions that I wasn't good looking or charming enough to tempt them, even though the real reason would have been because they were straight and married!

Is it normal for me to feel this way? :-(

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Based on 56 votes (22 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Because they value their careers more than an affair. I am a teacher and I would not risk my reputation for something like that. Sorry honey.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      That's very reassuring to hear. :-)

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  • bananaface
    11 years ago

    You should feel lucky that you had decent teachers.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    This is true. I just don't understand it.
    The teachers weren't that attractive, but at the time I was one of the very attractive (but no gross and popular) girls.
    I wonder why they rejected me so many times.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Having an affair with someone (at least in real life) takes some things, after a while, you regret it.

    It's much better to get involved with someone that is available and will be only for you.

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