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I recently met many women on fb groups that wanted to date and life was going good. Now last night my account was hacked and cant get back in although a friends working on it for me. So many i met this week i cant contact and one i thought might actually work out longterm. It seems like every time lifes going good shit hits the fan and i feel depressed and alone.Is it normal to feel like this, that ill never find love or a girlfriend.
Well you seem to me like the kind of person who does little to nothing of the right things you should be doing to get control of your life again. You think that because of fate or some shit, shit constantly happens to you, preventing you from enjoying your life. So, then, you gotta grab this little "fate" bastard and kick him in the nuts. You know how you do that? MAKE CHOICES. I'm going to be extra clear so better listen. First thing you gotta do, you go right now to that filthy room you probably got and you clean it like you've never cleaned anything in your life. You pick up the trash, you fold your clothes (put the dirty ones in the washing machine please) and put them in the right place, you make the bed and you put fucking room deodorant in there. Material order leads to mental peace. If you can, get a tattoo of that. After you've put your place in order, you find a place where you feel safe and calm, and you reflect over your life and your choices. What choices have led you to where you are now? Why are you the person you are now? Is this the person you really want to be? If not, who is that person and how far are you from becoming that person? Maybe the root of all your problems is that time your classmate stole your favorite meal from your bag in kindergarten, who knows. Find the cause of your pain and YOU ACKNOWLEDGE IT. YOU GET OVER IT. You decide who you want to be and what you have to do to achieve that, step by step.
Then, go out to the world and buy new clothes. Yeah, that's right, but something that feels like YOU, something that shouts your name to the world and that you feel proud of, no matter what others might think. First you change internally, then you change externally. If you need to change jobs, you change it. If you need to get new friends, you get them. Do whatever it takes because you have to be your first priority. I hope this helps you, soldier. You're not alone. Let me know how it goes.