Feel like i am losing my boyfriend, but i'm also pushing him away.

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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about three months, but at this point I feel like he lost complete interest in me or shall I say 'us'.

We barely have decent conversations anymore now it's just like "Hi." "How're you doing?" "Well, talk to you later then." and so on I just feel like he's with me so he wouldn't feel bad about breaking up with me or just doesn't have a way or saying it to me yet.

The fact that I'm paranoid about losing him just piles on to the whole situation because at the same time I don't want to lose him but my consciousness is somewhat pushing him away so if he does leave I won't be as hurt because I was prepared for it.

I don't know if I'm over analyzing things or what but I just need an answer.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    Maybe he sucks at showing his emotion or love for you. Sometimes I have this problem but my girlfriend is so good at showing hers to me, that I open up also. She is always saying I am handsome or she misses me which in turn, I tell her how perfect she is and how much I can't stand it that we are not together in person. Maybe you should lead by example and he will respond.

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  • HellFlower
    11 years ago

    TALK ABOUT IT WITH HIM, GOD. My boyfriend and I had this problem back then due to lack of being open to each other and lack of communication. Relationships are all about communication and understanding each other. But seriously, talk to him about how you feel.

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