Feel cursed and ugly that i have never been fancied?

This is completely normal. I was the same way. When I first went to college, no one looked at me. I was the average girl who wore average clothes and did nothing special to her hair or face. I'd look at the cute guys but they'd never look back. I really hate to say this but appearance does help. But the biggest part of catching a guy is confidence in yourself. In my second year of college, the cutest guy in class sat down next to me. I let him know I was interested by looking his way, and batting my lashes every time he looked at me. I'd make small talk and ALWAYS smile. Then one day I asked him out to lunch after class. Turns out not only was he cute but he was smart too. We've been together for a year now and still happily in love. You see, the KEY is to have confidence in yourself. You have to understand that in order to find love you have to love yourself. You are not cursed, you're just not seeing your potential.

well... if you'd like to talk, just tell me. ;)

I never have guys hitting on me either and I'm 38. My whole life I've never had luck with men. Well one guy did ask me to dance but I could smell alcohol on his breath so he was probably looking at me through beer googles but other then that no man has ever bothered with me. They look at me in passing but that is it. I never get looks of interest, it's usually looks of distaste that say "Eeewwww who would want THAT?".
I don't really blame them because I look at myself through a mans eyes and I see something hideous. Even I can't stand the sight of myself. I have a warm and caring personality but no man will ever discover that nice side of my because my looks make them run a mile. I can tell I'm gonna be single until I die. *sigh*

Maybe its make over time. A new look. Do you need to shed a few pounds? If so hit the gym. I am not trying to be offensive. Get out of your circle of life and go out, be active, find hobbies. If that fails there is always the Internet.

No matter how "ugly" you are, somewhere out there is a man who will think you are beautiful. There are plenty of girls I grew up with whom I found to be absolutely repulsive (physically and mentally) who are dating or married now.

Try changing your routine. You have to put yourself out there and allow opportunities to be able to come your way. Just like the saying goes; no one ever changed the world by staying at home.

Maybe some of the signals you're sending off are that you're not interested. I'm sure there are plenty of people who would be (and are) attracted to you. It's just that if they think you don't like them, they're not going to bother.