Fear of commitment

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I seem to have this fear of getting into a commited relationship. I love the guys, but i guess i just don't want to get hurt and I'm afraid of what people think of me. I tend to be shy, and it seems like alot of my good friends have boyfriends, but i don't.
Also, i always seem to be attracted to men i can't have. For instance, i really liked my humanities professor, but now i like this guy i work with. I've worked there for 4 years, and i just started liking him now. Although he's married and i know its wrong to like him like that. I'm not a homewrecker. I guess i just can't help who I'm attracted to. I just want a guy who likes me for me, one who's interested in some of the same stuff as me and is trustworthy. Is that to much to ask?

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Based on 39 votes (33 yes)
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  • supaflyafro
    13 years ago

    seems to me we need to meet

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    normal

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  • SecretSecrets
    13 years ago

    All kinds of attractions are different in one way or another. Many women, and guys too, are often sttracted to those they can't have. They just have to strive for one that they can have and likes them for who they are, and not for looks, sex, or money. I hope you find the right guy soon! And it's okay to be afraid, it only matters if you like him, not if your friends or family do.

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