Fear of being annoying...?

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I fear being perceived as "annoying" by other people. Seriously. And I find this quite...well, annoying. When I feel that I've crossed the boundary into the land of "annoying" (which I define as being needy or clingy), my heart starts to race. I basically have a panic attack. And then my depression starts to set in. And I hate it, because it goes against everything that I want to be: someone who can be themselves without fear or reservation. So first of all, it is normal? Secondly, any tips for reducing my paranoia?

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  • purpleisnice
    13 years ago

    Hmmm funny part is a smart ass like you thought of that so late. Why do you think this torments me?

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  • MarijuAtheist
    13 years ago

    It's normal, but it's not good. Just try to be more relaxed around people.

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  • johnthegreek
    13 years ago

    i had this problem, just check out if you have agoraphobia and you afraid of the public :)

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  • iluvmcr9
    13 years ago

    Oh my gosh. I'm the same way, but I never really thought about it as a fear of being annoying. Now that I look at it, it totally is, because all the same things happen to me! The depression, the heart racing. I can't really tell you if it's normal or not, but it happens to me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I used to be like that but you'll notice of you start to be annoying because people change and either way your friends should still love you so it's all good:)

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