Fatter than i look :/

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Okay, so here's the deal. I weigh 17 stone the last time I checked, but I'm too scared to check again. The thing is, looking at me as a whole, I really don't look it. Looking at just my face, I actually pass as a normal sized girl as my weight doesn't show there. I've had people guess my weight before and I normally get 12 or 13 stone as the most popular guess. If I dare to tell them my real weight they are gasping in utter shock from it. Now, I know from my H cups that my boobs probably pay a big part in my weight, but even then, that's not five stone alone. I have friends who ARE 13 stone and are a great deal larger than me. What I dont get is WHY I dont look anything like my weight and why I've still got an hourglass figure, though to be fair, a few undesirable lumps and bumps are prominent along the way.

My obvious ability to be an attractive girl confuses me. I've never been skinny, but I'm not exactly uncomfortable with myself, I'd just like to lose whatever weight is necessary to lose the undesirable lumps. When I see my reflection I see a really attractive girl underneath and I know that if I lost some weight I'd be a sexually attractive girl, but until I've reached that desirable girl I want to be, the mere idea of ever trying anything sexual with anyone is just inconceivable to me, along with the idea that someone would actually want me as I am. Nomatter how much I try I never lose that weight, so I'm sort of stuck in limbo.

Can anyone else relate to ANY this?
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  • Lockets
    13 years ago

    How tall are you first?

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      5'6/7 last time i checked.

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  • scorpionwoman
    13 years ago

    what the hell is 13 stone...this is like caveman weight measurements

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    • b454
      13 years ago

      A stone is like 14 pounds I believe. Google it.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Isn't it a good thing to be fatter than you look? Compared to looking fatter than you are?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    haha I know what you mean, though I don't weight as much as you I carry my weight well. Its pretty evenly spread, though I am still overweight. I'm 5'7 and big boned (I'm not saying it as an excuse it's true I'm big boned and I hate it. though it isn't an excuse it can make you look smaller then you are, everyone does come in different builds) and I have a fairly defined face I don't really carry much of my weight in my face so no one would be able to tell as a head shot that I was over weight. I have weight in my butt, thighs, and stomache I carry it evenly. I think it depends on your body type and some are lucky and don't show their weight as much as others. Some could only be 10lbs over weight and look 30lbs over weight while some may be 30lbs over weight and only look 10lbs over.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'm a fat dude that's in the same boat as you. People are always surprised when I tell them I'm 250lbs. I'm 5'8'' and there's no GOOD excuse for either of us being as heavy as we are. I've used all the excuses in the book, but the reality is...who cares?

    The bottom line is, if you feel bad about yourself, you are NOT gonna attract very many people.

    So your two options are:

    1. Convince yourself that you are attractive the way you are, or

    2. Take initiative. Change your lifestyle to include: a) Strength Training

    b) Cardiovascular Training

    c) Salads, and no more junk.

    I'm pretty sure you've heard this before, but maybe this time it will sink in.

    I struggle with this too so don't feel like you're alone though.

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  • b454
    13 years ago

    Aww, mrsduckyfuzzles, I love that name. I smile whenever I see it. I'm 5'6" and have a medium frame. I weigh more than I look and it drives me nuts. Its better than looking like I weigh more than I really do. I don't have big boobs either so I know that doesn't account for anything. H cups, huh. Wow. With boobs that huge they do play a part in your weight, obviously, so don't be too uspet about it. as far as being sexually desirable, everyone has differnt taste so I'm sure there guys that see you and want to get in your pants. Curves are desirable, even if there a few lumps and bumps along the way. No worries duckyfuzzles :)

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  • bronte_91
    13 years ago

    ^ Yes, that is what I was going to ask. If you are quite tall and "big boned" ( I know that is an excuse for some people to be over weight but some people actually do have a larger frame). Anyway, the other thing could be that you are quite musculer. Muscle weighs more than fat so if you are athletic that could be the reason. The most important thing is to be healthy :D

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  • master0
    13 years ago

    LOL damn!you're fat.you pathetic americans,you always complain just go out do some exercise.

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    • meeskite
      13 years ago

      she's obviously not american if she's referring to her weight in stones, she must be from the united kingdom.

      i'm not saying you're fat, but your bmi doesn't look too good, assuming you're referring to your height in feet and inches. what you really should do is consult your doctor, he/she will know best.

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    • deepthought33
      13 years ago

      American's weigh their body in pounds FYI.

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