Fantasies about my gay friend

Okay so I am a girl, and my friend Tony recently told me he was gay. I know he is gay because one of his ex bfs told me too. Since then, we text and talk 24/7 and I am really starting to like him. We sometimes talk about hot guys, whose butt is cuter, but He also talks about how beautiful I am, and tells me Im prettier than any other girl. I have had fantasies about having sex with him, even though he is gay. We went on a trip and I was yawning and he got really excited and said I could fall asleep on his shoulder, so I did and it felt so good. He put his arm around me and he rested his head on mine. I wish I could recreate that moment. Wdyt is it normal, is he bi? Should I ask him out???

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  • DumbGenius

    All I'm reading on this is "love is genderless" and "just go for it". I'm sorry but he likes guys, life isn't an avral levene song. It's a fruitless endeavor that will only get your hopes up. I'm sorry but it had to be said,

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  • tingtong143

    i had the same encounter with my friend, im gay and i told her, she was the only person that knew.. after a few months she asked me out knowing im gay, i told her that i cant and she said it was ok, and we're still good friends, so i think go for it and he'll understand and tell you what he thinks.

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    • FreakyKing2

      So by the sounds of things all I have to do is tell a girl I like that I'm gay and she will automatically fall in love with me? haha

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  • hoojamuflip

    If your that keen on him you could consider a sex change(please don't that is only said in jest). However, proceed with caution as he would probably turn out to be straight then. Seriously though you probably only want him 'cos he's unavailable, if he was straight you'd probably run a mile....maybe "straight" into the arms of the next gay...Don't torture yourself. Get yourself a straight boyfriend who can fulfill more than just your emotional needs..Good luck.

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  • Marigold22s

    Tony sounds like he likes di k not clit leave it at that and go for a guy who isnt gay. What is it with women and gay men?

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  • probablynot

    Don't confuse your friendship with romantic intimacy. If you want to ask out a guy then get some female friends together, go out with them and meet some guys who aren't gay.

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  • Ahoy

    Ah my best friend is gay too. I love him to death. He acts that way towards me too. I actually used to like him, and I told him, and nothing is even weird between us. No, I don't like him anymore, but we're still best friends.
    He probably doesn't like you, dear, sorry.
    Move on :)
    Best wishes <3

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  • DiscoDuck

    Ask him who blows better men or women. Then show him how you do it.

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  • Evralette

    Forbidden fruit... it happens to alot of women

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  • chris395

    this is like the same thing that happened to me, after i told a friend that i was gay we started talking all the time and yea she started liking me, she would even tell me about her sexual fantasies and shit, don't worry it should probably fade,
    although i didn't tell her she was beautiful or anything, she just kinda took everything i said as being a message of me secretly wanting her but in truth i couldn't be any more uninterested

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  • Gidget

    he prollie likes u too trust me he would pick u over a guy it doesnt matter if he is gay just be willing to be a little freaky u know gay guys like it u know where

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  • THATSWHATHESAID

    no love he is gay !!

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  • HarryPotterFanNumberOne

    Try any help him find u attractive but try and mend his gay side to an decreased size so he still has feelings for boys but a bit of feelings for girls too!

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  • icanteven

    its normal, but i wouldnt ask him out it might ruin your relationship, you'll move on soon:)

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  • buzzybimaybe

    He may be bisexual if he is interested in women at home

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  • barebackbottomboi

    Me gay first no dont ask him out. Now he might be sexually attracted to u. Tell him you might get the best sex. Or he will tell you no just dont get attached that way.

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  • yourenottheonlyone

    i have a gay best friend and he treats me like that too. i love that he is gay, he can do me no wrong :)

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  • katherine1

    dont ask him out! just continue to be friends and see what happens.

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  • frankiepage

    I think if you have feelings for him you should tell him. Worst case he would be flattered and shoot you down. Best case he could have feelings for you too. Love is genderless.

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    • hoojamuflip

      Love is genderless yes, sexuality is a different matter. Some people are best part of 100 percent one way or the other, many fall between these polar extremes. But many gays could not have sex with a member of the opposite sex, some could tolerate, and some might even vaguely enjoy it. Doesn't mean they'd not prefer the "real" thing.

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  • AbnormalGuy

    girls have sexual fantasies too? .. thats hot

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    • graceandglory

      obviously ;)

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