Family and boyfriend

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Well here it goes:boyfriend have been together for over a year and we've known each other for almost 3 he wants me to move in with him but it's like I'm not good with change because you know I've been with my family for ever and it's also a huge step but he says he wants to marry me and everything and I really want to move in with them but I don't want to hurt me family in the process of doing that of being happy and everything I want to I want to move on with my life and be with him and get married and all that good stuff but I don't want leave my family and have them say that I can't come back home and me and him and not being together anymore and then I have nowhere else to stay I love him with all my heart and I really want to move in with them in start our life together I'm not sure what to do I want some opinions on how to handle this I want to move in with them but I'm not sure what the right choices not sure what to do I'm basically it feels like I'm choosing between my boyfriend/future husband and my family so if you guys can please give me your opinion it would help a lot.

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Based on 22 votes (16 yes)
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  • farkelu
    8 years ago

    Jeez is that one long run-on sentence or what?

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  • PinkHairedFreak
    8 years ago

    I think it would be a good idea to live on your own or with a roommate for awhile if you haven't already. It's a good experience to have, and after marriage, you likely won't have it again.

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    • delilahjoy18
      8 years ago

      Thanks for the advice :)

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    This relationship is going to fail, so why bother to do anything? Neither one of you can bring yourselves to separate from your families and that is the kiss of death for any serious relationship. If you two can't find a place of your own, without your families present, then why not continue with the tea parties with him and your dollies?

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  • delilahjoy18
    8 years ago

    Shut the fuck up. And get on some where apperantly you don't have a life or you wouldn't be rude AF an be a bitch to people how about u get a life an stay the fuck out of mine sorry but I don't deal with people like you so get the fuck over your self an get a life

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    • charli.m
      8 years ago

      What were you saying about maturity, sweet cheeks?

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    • Leloch
      8 years ago

      Why are u so mad on something doesn't deserve ! Whats in ur mind ?

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  • Leloch
    8 years ago

    Meeeh choose ur family... u will break up soon, u dont love him .. and I guess u r not old enough for marriage and commitment

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    • delilahjoy18
      8 years ago

      Your not god u don't know we will and ur not me u don't know who I love and don't love an it doesn't matter about age it matters about.maturity

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      • Leloch
        8 years ago

        No its a prediction build on evidence..maturity doesn't exist,only experience from living too much

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