Fallen out of love?

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after a really serious 2.5 years realtionship with my boyfriend, its gone rocky so he suggested a break, i was destraught as i cant imagine my life without him love and worship him so much that if i wasnt his g/f id be his stalker!
yet a month & a half later i requested a pilot open realtionship as i hav a high sex drive, still young and can get any bloke (according 2 my m8s & him).
is it also normal that recently i slept with another man & since then i feel like men are just for sex & my feelings 2 him are numb? is this just a phase and or defence mechanism?

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  • carr
    13 years ago

    This happened to me too years ago. I was in 3 yr relationship, I cheated n then ALL my feelings for him went away. Best decision ever!! Bc then I started to live life, I met new people, I experienced alot of new things and learned not to involve emotions in everything. There is such thing as just sex. I did have a couple of serious relationships also where all emotions were in effect. U learn to c the difference.

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  • BirdIsDaWordGuy
    14 years ago

    Men are not just for sex!! women are though...

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  • nothing2
    14 years ago

    its 2 different worlds. in relationship world, people are honest. in the wild, they are not. so don't be naive okay. especially if you meet one that is honest or really likes you. you can tell. if the dude is like a salesman, like high pressure. thats bad. try living by yourself.

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  • Chonga
    14 years ago

    Most relationships fade over time,you need thrill and excitement...move on and enjoy your life!

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  • anabolic19
    14 years ago

    erm i went thro a similar thing
    what you got to remember is your still young and you've been together a long time
    now what happens is you begin to grown up and you panick about getting older and losing your youth probably whats happening to your lad
    so hes worried about losing his youth and having to settle down
    he "thinks" he wants to play around abit live it up and be young
    but in fact he dosnt i was the same
    thinking i want to f*ck lots of girls
    i dont want to be tied down
    so i broke up with my girlfriend
    i regreted it the second i said it
    my life was sh*t without her
    i needed her
    i tryed everything to get back with her she wouldnt take me back
    i even tryed to commit suicide
    what you need to do is get to the bottom of this whole thing forget about an open relationship
    you need to talk and ask him whats really amatter ( its hard for us to tell you the root of whats really wrong )
    also have you been spending alot of time together lately? cos he may just seem smothered

    hope i helped

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