F**k love

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There's this guy that i've been dating off and on for the past 2 1/2 years. When we're together, everything seems amazing, but when we're apart, we fuss, fight, and act like we're worst enemies. Sometimes I feel like I hate him and it's because i don't think he loves me like he says he does. I know I love him with all my heart. Sometimes people tell me that he's talking to other females and it angers me that i'm putting so much effort into us and it seems like he don't give a crap. Everytime I confront him about a rumor he gets mad and says "You're my wifey, I love you so don't worry about any other girls". But it still bothers me. After he comes visit me, he wouldn't call me for a while, and if I call, he won't return. Now he wants to start a family with me. I asked him if I should stop taking the meds. my doctor gave me [for a UTI] in case I am pregnant, he seemed frustrated when he was telling me to keep taking the pills, and now he didn't answer my call. Is this normal or am I worrying too much?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Back up the truck. You are in junior high, have an off & on sort of yes, maybe no type of wingy semi-relationship with a boy - and you are talking of getting pregnant?

    Take your meds. Put the container they come in between your knees. Keep them there whenever he's around.

    You should be dating and finding a steady. Not talking "wifey" and having a family with someone you don't even date regularly and when you are just in jr high.

    Where are your values. Dump him, and start looking for normal age-appropriate relationships.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      * the container that came with it ... sorry a bit incoherent there... just listen to Tyger...

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  • Aleks85
    11 years ago

    Stupid ass girls. No wonder these so many teen pregnancies.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If you've heard he's cheating on you, how else could you react? Get rid!!! Or face a life of misery.

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Wow ur too young for all of this

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Never believe anything coming out of a mans mouth if he can't even return a phone call.

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  • wish-i-wasn't-normal
    14 years ago

    first of all, your still in high school.
    marriage and kids should be the last things on your mind right now.

    i say dump his ass now!
    if you marry him, your marriage life will mirror your current one.
    i don't know him, so i can't say if he'll be man enough to be a good father. or just some creep who gets you pregnant and leaves you for another as soon as the shit hits the fan.

    there are always more fish in the sea, find a real man. he's clearly just having fun and doesn't have the same feeling for you as you have for him.

    stay on the pills, and even make him wear a rubber.
    the more protection the safer it is.

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    • dagreat
      12 years ago

      it said I was a junior in high school, not in junior high. but I'm off to college now and that year I got rid of him, I feel so good, so FREE! I can't believe I was that STUPID and NAIVE over him!!

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      • monkeysee68
        9 years ago

        I realize this was posted years ago but I was looking this site up after a long break and saw this and wanted to say "good on you!" I hope you are still happy and having a great life

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    • monkeysee68
      13 years ago

      '....find a real man.." ....in junior high??? Are you 13 as well???

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  • johnedwards
    14 years ago

    HEs fucking someone else behind your back. I promise. You need to bang one of his friends to get even.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    EVERYONE ON THIS WEBSITE: BE CAREFUL OF "BUDTHE WISE" - HE IS A FIRST CLASS CREEP, WOMAN ABUSER, RACIST AND IGNORAMUS ... AND PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY OF HIS CRAPPY AND ABUSIVE ADVICE. PLEASE!!!

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    girl, you are a child, im in college and i live with my boyfriend and we know that marriage and kids are far far far away!!!! you are still a girl, enjoy it! you dont need to be tied down to some little boy. this is your first love, i get why he seems so important, but take a step back and try thinking with your brain for a moment. is this relationship realistic? is this healthy? is it fair to you? is it normal? the answer is NO on all counts.

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  • Namarta
    14 years ago

    He's just not that into you.

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  • mrgrim747
    14 years ago

    im a guy (19) and have not experienced marriage first hand but just hear me out, from what i know it sounds like your feeling very unappreciated and not getting the attention a wife needs try a marriage councilor and if that's not an option than i know that its hard to let go but sometimes when you do, your so much happier...its always darkest before the dawn -well i hope my advice helped:)

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    • dagreat
      14 years ago

      thanx but i'm not married, lol, im still a jr in high school

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  • alexisfreak
    14 years ago

    He is f**king someone else! Divorce!

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