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I am male and looking for a girl to share an intimate relationship with. But I don't know how to find one. What's a good way that I can meet and talk to some new girls? If I experiment I'm sure I could eventually find a partner. I am depressed and hate the idea of not having anyone love me in that way. Also is it normal to be so upset about this sorta shit?
Yes, it's normal to be lonely and long for a companion, but don't let it control you, don't let it dominate your existence. I know it might not sound fair, but it seems the more desperate one is the less likely one is to find someone. It's like desperation has a smell, and most people worth dating think it stinks. It seems like the only ones who like the smell desperation are users and manipulators. I personally think it makes others, myself included, feel suffocated and overwhelmed.
Not that I haven't felt desperate in my life, but it always seems that I don't find anyone until I've let go of the desperation, and started to be happy and okay about my single status. I know it's frustrating and sounds crazy, but I swear it works.
Take some classes or go to meet-ups about different hobbies and activities you're interested in and there's a good chance you'll meet someone nice eventually. Also make a list of must haves and deal breakers.
I have never ever, ever seen or heard this put better. Thank you for writing this
Yes, thank you so much for this. I needed this. I think this is the answer I've been looking for for so long!!!! BTW I am the one who wrote this post
your username is giving me hints as to why you might not find a mate in normal society. Try your local clan meetings or white nationalist get together, there is some piece of shit out there for you, hope this helps!