Extreme suspicion but i love him.

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I love my boyfriend. But everything he does is perfect, he's NEVER lied to me, and he makes it obvious that he wants to be with me all the time. He's never done anything to hurt me, we never fight, the only time he's ever cursed at me was when I accused him of lying (For some reason). He's so nice and so sweet and such a gentleman that it almost scares me. So my mind thinks of everything horrible that he could be doing to me behind my back. (From killing me to cheating on me) But I know he's a good person (one of the sweetest people anyones ever met and anyone will meet, would do anything for anyone) and I think I'm hurting him by thinking he would hurt me. How do I stop thinking these things because I don't want my thoughts to ruin this.

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  • 4w04se
    14 years ago

    My ex was like that.. (We broke up cause of cultural differences.. and because of families so never mind my situation) It was such a peaceful relationship .. come on if you really know him you won't suspect him like this :) Wishing you all the best and don't you give him away for a lame reason.. those kinda guys you won't meet again!

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    • FinalFantasyROCKS
      14 years ago

      agreed.

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    • roadrunnerxo
      14 years ago

      :) He's the sweetest person I've ever met! I'm starting to feel alot less suspicious, looking at it from both perspectives makes it alot easier for me to extinguish those thought. He could be thinking the same things about me, but he's not exploiting any irrational thoughts... outwardly at least. Thank you for your wishes!! <3 I'll try and stay positive

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  • thrtonscups
    11 years ago

    maybe you feel insecure because its a good relationship that could last a lifetime and even though you dont realize it maybe it scares you a little so you think of things in your mind because its so good it cant be true and you have been hurt before

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  • --ash--
    12 years ago

    But it's all true, he's doing your sister & they are planing to knock you off for the insurance money.

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  • LAW13
    13 years ago

    Well if he gets defensive when you accuse him of lying, he might not be as honest as you think. Your story sounds just like mine, except thanks to my vigilance and intuition I finally caught him in a lie. And then another. It takes a LONG time to figure some people out.

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  • fox
    13 years ago

    Until he actually does something to break your trust , trust him he deserves it. Otherwise he won't put up with always being hounded for something he didn't do and break up with you. It's bc you don't want to feel dumb if you trust him and then find out he's cheating. But you can't have a relationship like that. It won't make you dumb but it will if u scar off a good guy

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  • mmaracle97
    14 years ago

    dont be suspicious. its natural to think that your boyfriend is cheating on you. just be happy with him. :D

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