Extramarital relations

Well naturally any women would get jealous and annoyed by this. If he really wants it, he will always desire it and other things over time. Probably not right for you. Really talk things over with him and let him know how you feel. But what he wants is normal.

You can't believe he wants to do it? I can't believe you want to marry him. This will not be a happy marriage.

Sounds like he wants to use you as someone that he can run to while he blows off his steam with other women.
Men like this typically wont like you fooling around with men and will fool around with women themselves.....
If you even feel an ounce of uncomfortably about this, DON'T DO IT!!!
Be cautious about being with this guy, it seems like he has his own issues to work out for himself, don't get dragged down in his drama. It's easier to say than do, but just leave him. There's no "changing" him, he has to work this out on his own, or maybe he won't.

I love it when he shoots his hot load in my filthy bleeding ass, I have some vids of us if you would like to see them.

Is he still in the wheel chair ?

Hmm...I would only believe and acknowledge what real committed MEN would comment. I am myself a committed man happily married for 3 yrs and I love my wife and child very much. I feel the love from my heart so there is no confusion about that.

Though I have not got into any extramarital relationship as of yet I can feel inside my P***s the extreme urge to F**k another woman or even a teenager. BUT that's only to F**k and satify my physical desires...nothing to do with the love for my wife.

Don't listen to these idiots saying the marriage won't last. People were not meant to be monogamous. Society made us that way. You guys should have fun with other partners. Do it together if your too jealous. Whatever makes both people happy. It's not realistic to be happy being with the same women / man sexually for the rest of your life. That'd be hell. Expand your horizons, meet guys/girls have fun...but remember the one you love and come home to them

if you're not into his swinging lifestyle, don't marry the dude, he will make you miserable.

At least HE and YOU are honest about your desires. Fact is you can not expect someone to alter their personal needs to satisfy yours, its selfish and unrealistic. Better to tell someone honestly that Hey I like sex more than you can supply so I will get it elsewhere, but still come home. After all, if he liked some type of food that you could not cook or was allergic too you would not expect him to stop eating it...at least give him the right to find it elsewhere and come home afterwards.

I think this will give you both a chance to really deal with your personal insecurities and grow into full well rounded adults....something most people just can't do...

If you can handle it, and the risks [hiv, std, etc] then go for it, if the risks are too great then back off.

It's called swinging and it is normal,but I do not agree with it and it usually ends up badly.

I really hope that if you are married to him now it is because you yourself were genuinely intrigued by this lifestyle and not because you thought/think you can change him. You're very lucky that he brought this up right away. Unlike a lot of unsuspecting partners, you knew what kind of person you got involved with while you still had the chance to choose for yourself. If this is still an issue for you I'll just say it...you won't be able to change him, and it'll tear you apart. That being said, if the two of you are secure and honest in each other and keep things safe, you could have a lot of fun ;)

G E T O U T N O W...

RUN, DO NOT WALK, OUT THE DOOR, & DO NOT LOOK BACK.

I speak from experience. It will end in divorce because he will be fucking everything that moves. You will not be able to go to the store w/ out him having someone in your bed. He will be getting his hair cut WAY too often, because she puts her boobs in his face, then THEY will be doing it too. You'll be gone, the kids will be asleep, they will do it in your bed. I swear...

JUST SAY NO. Sad thing is, you will marry him anyway, really thinking he loves you. If he did, he would not be thinking of how to coerce you into bed with others. Mine tried repeatedly. NO, not into it. Read these comments- we are right.

DON'T LET ANYONE FORCE YOU TO DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH...IT'S YOUR LIFE..

It's normal to have those thoughts and fantasies, but it's not normal to act on them if you are in a committed relationship. You will always be wondering where he is and who he's doing. I am not married but in kind of the same situation. Five years now and I still can't trust him. Believe me, it's so not worth it. You'll feel useless and demeaned in the long run.

Warning, warning. Danger, danger!

What he desires is actually quite common, although few men would admit it, or talk about it openly, as it is so contrary to established societal conventions. If you and he can talk about this openly, than that is a big plus. Men can separate the emotions from the sex, so it is quite possible for him to have sex with other women, while retaining his emotional allegiance to you.

But, the question is, how comfortable are you with this? Remember, it is your decision too. Discuss this with him, be honest, and make sure he's honest with you. It is much better if this is out in the open, with your consent, then if he is doing things behind your back. And, you can always change your mind, later.

Yes, its common. Its a nut talking, and he's absolutely hung up on himself. He wants his cake and eat it also. If he is successful in getting you to do what he wants, you're marriage will last about as long as a fart
in a whirlwind. What is really bad about this
situation is I really don't believe he will be
able to recant and stay the course for you.
He's already let the cat out of the bag, and
its going to take a lot of performances on your
part to keep him faithful, and in the end, you
may come out the looser.... But good luck!!!