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is this a good idea? he broke up with me bc he realized that he can’t just fuck one person and would ultimately cheat on me. but we just wanna be friends cuz he still loves me. but he wants a month away first. do you think it’ll work out
It seems to me, if he asked you to sit in a corner while fucks other girls, you would do it. If that's what you're into go for it.
Put a leash on and be his pet.
Because you are involved in a romantic/sexual relationship. There is no such thing as being friends between you two. Friendship is a bond or reliability, trustworthiness and support. He is only interested in using you spontaneously and leaving you. You are only going to fool yourself with this guy. For him, you are only a sex toy, a side chick and nothing else. That's the furthest thing from a friendship.
he said he doesn’t want to fuck until there’s no feelings. use me for what
You would believe him if he said the sky was green, and the grass was blue, huh?
I don't know exactly what happened, but I can tell you that you are his toy and he told you this specifically, as you just said. If you're ok with being used that way then it's your option. But this is not called friendship, it's called random fucking.
Sounds like yet another guy who wants to have his cake and eat it, and he's looking for a girl dumb enough to put up with his BS.
You say he's told you that he loves you. Big deal. It's easy to do that. What he says means nothing. What matters is what he does.
It won't work and it shouldn't work. Living the single life is not something that can be done in a month and it is not all glamour either. I had some of my best experiences while single. Also, loneliness, depression, anxiety, sexual frustration, sexual exploration, self discovery and self loathing. Your boyfriend doesn't want to live the single life. He wants to fuck bitches that he may already have lined up and then go back to his comfortable safe place, you. Don't be his doormat. Live your fucking life.
well maybe i want that too? honestly i don’t think this guy is ever gonna get over me. i’m the best thing to ever happen to him, and he’s got nothing going on. he has to call hookers to get sex...
To him you're just a booty call. He knows you'll be there whenever he wants you. Give him his month but you take a month too. Not to fuck around (unless you want to) but to seriously reconsider this relationship. He's not ready for one. But if you go back to him than it's on you; I won't blame him after that. I don't know you but I'm sure you deserve better than this.
I don't trust him. I think you ought to take the key that you have to his place and use it to go over there when he's not home, girl, and git yo shit! Do not snoop through his stuff, or cyber stalk him, just git yo shit, and leave, girl. Do it!
I personally think he's just trying to ghost you while banging as many new chicks as possible. I think this month before meeting up with you again shit us just his way of further distancing himself from you. I'm relatively sure he will continue to put you off.
Regardless, please try not to continue to obsess about him, because he is now, just as he has always been and always will be a piece of shit! Embrace the truth, because it will set you free. He is a loser, and not worth you time, energy and emotion, and you know this, woman!
Fall for him... not if she's smart; but hook up with him... probably since there are plenty of drunk lonely chicks in bars and nightclubs. Regardless, I think you ought to focus on yourself and your own healing. Try to get your stuff back, and then work toward moving on with your life, girl.
Please do yourself a massive solid, and google narcissist abuse. I'm pretty sure you will be able to relate to the struggle.