Ex, bathing, relationship, bath

When you new bf has a tubby with his x see how you react

uhh u should tell him but he my feel it was

Well posting anything on the internet automatically makes it not a secret so this may be an honesty or bust kinda situation, anything can be innocent in the right context, but this guy could spin the bathing story a bad way if he ever got involved in explaining things, you either already feel some guilt over this and are thinking about coming clean which if you do the guilt will show through and the situation will quickly degrade into a problem for your relationship, or the cats already out of the bag and your looking for someone to justify your argument, if this is the case then your screwed and your only chance of things working out is your boyfriend forgiving you and moving on. either way in today's world guys don't like it when their girlfriends get naked and soapy with guys who aren't them, this may not be an absolute fact but its a good ground rule.

Would you like it if he did that? Even the tiniest doubt should not be ignored, and you should've asked before you did it. I mean, you are asking now on this site, which means you do know it's not entirely right... so why do it before discussing with him ?

i would slapped you so hard that you would hear the bells of Notre Dame for weeks in your ears. Then i would ditch your stupid lame cheating ass.

Yep!

I'm a man and if I was naked in a bath with a girl, I would pound her rotten

cheating is the worst thing you could ever do. why didn't you have a bath with ur bf instead of ur ex?

If it's not sexual, then why worry about telling your boyfriend?

It's not really cheating since u didn't do anything but see each other naked, but I wouldn't tell your man... He may not believe that nothing happened.

It sounds like cheating. I know if I walked in on my gf having a bath with another guy I'd be beating both of you.

It's cheating.

Hell yea it's cheating! Are you serious?

Sorry, its cheating. You guys didnt touch each other but it was wrong because you two are done so he shouldnt be able to see that side of you. Its like giving someone a free ticket to see you wet and naked but not allowed to touch...

Cheating definitely, so keep it to yourself.

I love cockslinger's comments. They're always the same. Talk about a one track mind.

plz dnt tell it to uer bf if u luv him truely!!!
it wud simply brek ur relationship!!!!

U should not tell its scary he may have a crush on u again

Not normal. Unless you come to the realization that you should break up with him because there is apparently something missing in your relationship if you're getting high/naked with your ex and not him.

How the hell is that cheating if you did it with your ex Bf. and i gotta admit is kinda hot o_o

i don't know if honesty is a good thing this time. why would you tell your boyfriend that you took a bath with your ex? all that would do would be to cast doubt about you.

there's different degrees of cheating, and everyone has their own opinion of it. many think that it can still be cheating without sex involved.

Well, unless your boyfriend is one of the 20% who will become swingers after marriage (http://www.actualswingers.com/couples_swingers.html), I can bet he will be quite uncomfortable with the idea that you and your ex (who he may or may not feel comfortable about you interacting with anyway) are putting yourself in a situation that by itself can be easily characterized as sexual. The fact that your ex commented about enjoying being able to see you nude again suggests that at the very least, there still lingers some level of attraction to you, if not more. I will not speculate about your feelings towards him. I am willing to bet; however, that if you put yourself in many more of such situations, the innocent feeling you have right now in your head will be replaced by a sharper more piercing prick (get it?)!

Assuming your intention is not to go down that route, I recommend you take steps to ensure that the situation and many more like it do not repeat themselves, and you spend an equal amount of time and effort making sure that your current bf never hears about it. Innocent and impaired, though the situation may have been.

best of luck to you!