Everyone i know has too high of an opinion of themselves.

I'm not sure if this is because I'm a product of "Generation X" or whatever, but lately I've noticed that everyone I know things very highly of themselves.

It seems everyone I know (under 25) thinks they're beautiful/hot, smart, articulate, talented, cultured and generally the epitome of perfection.

My cousins and friends all think they're the hottest girls to ever walk the planet. All of them have at one time or another rated themselves as "significantly above average" in the looks department. None of them are partuallirly stunning, they're right at average.

My best friend swears she has the best fashion sense and is always trying to "dress" me to her tastes (which runs from runway-trash, or sl*tty-chic). She always says she could be a model, has even auditioned (never had any callbacks).

This guy I know was always talking about how his dream was to become a male model. He would try to date the most beautiful women etc... The thing is, he was short, with HORRIBLE acne and bad hygiene.

Another one of my friends who is dumber than a ton of bricks is always rambling on about how smart she is, how sexy she is etc (and this girl is by all accounts really REALLY ugly)

I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which is all encompassing, but seriously... is this egotistical behavior normal?

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  • hot2trot

    I think it comes from that, "my child can do no wrong" and constant coddling of parents to avoid damaging the little one's self esteem...

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  • gaelicwolf

    This generation has been utterly and completely spoiled. They've been taught to always feel good about themselves, so they never think they have to improve in any areas of their life. Girls are especially annoying; they have an unbearable sense of entitlement.

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  • hahahaha. I always seem to meet girls who think they are amazing in one sense or another. it's pretty pathetic especially when they talk shit on guys who aren't perfect. these two UGLY ASS girls were talking about some guy they go to school with basically mocking him because he has HAIR ON HIS STOMACH. it was in my driving school.....I literally wanted to hit both of them repeatedly.

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  • a_blonde_paradox

    Wow, you must be from the same area I am. Everyone has a completely obtuse and surreal view of who they are. i.e: lower Alabama

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  • Other09

    Say it enough and it makes it true... right?

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  • People who believe that they are "All That" can be really annoying to those of us who actually Are.

    OMB ;)

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  • ProblemSolved

    I've never really had a good self-esteem since grade 3 when I realized social standing dominates everything. I eventually ended up gaining weight because I ate when I got bored.

    I know a few people like that. They think that they are somehow higher than the rest of us, but nobody agrees with them, in which case they'll go tell another person- who will listen- about how great they think they are.

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  • littleone

    More love, less negativity.

    I think it's great if someone loves themselves and has grand dreams of their future. Oh, the power to dream!

    Let them be.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    ...there are other people? Id never noticed
    * kisses mirror*

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  • equanimity

    :)

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  • I can't stand it when people constantly criticize others. I had this friend and she always had SOMETHING bad to say about everybody. Being happy and confident with yourself is okay. Acceptance. Self esteem comes from realizing that maybe you aren't a perfect 10, but you aren't ugly and you're okay. Being a perfect 10 isn't going to make you any happier. Being the smartest person in the world isn't going to guarantee a life surrounded by people you love and care about. I've begun to realize since going to college that when you are prettier and smarter than everybody, it's lonely at the top. Why are we always so obsessed with being the best? I kind of like being able to relate to others as opposed to secretly competing.

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  • Most people are really insecure. Some just say those things cuz they figure if they keep sayin it they'll finally start to believe it. I'd say those people aren't normal.

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  • waterbottle123

    yeah, that is such b.s. every little teeny bopper taking a million pictures of themselves and posting them on the internet and expecting people to worship them and thinking they are so amazing looking.

    get over yourself!!

    though this is less common, many young people today have very little self esteem, as i can say from experience. i hated myself and hated the way i looked and developed an eating disorder... now im working on accepting myself and loving myself for who i am.

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  • lovemybetchez

    OMG!!!! you just explained my bestfreind!!!

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  • stone_love

    It's normal, but that doesn't mean it's societally healthy. But there are also lots of people with the opposite sense of themselves. It's rare to come by someone who has a completely realistic idea of themselves ...

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  • SwimBikeRun

    PaychoNikki, you sound very angry. I bet if you were more attractive and intelligent you wouldn't be so angry.

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    • PsychoNikki

      Oh yeah, if only. Actually, people call me beautiful all the time. Perfect strangers even. And my IQ is 132 so I have no trouble in that department either.

      FYI It's not about jealousy or envy and I wasn't angry...it's about people telling me they're going to be movie stars and supermodels when they can't act to save their lives and look like pigs in makeup. It's about big egos where they don't belong.

      Tell me, are you one of those "dreamers" who thinks they're a perfect 10 or a rocket scientist?

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  • spacewookie

    Egotistical behavior? You're joking right? I have a question for you. What makes you the all superior judge of all these people? From what it sounds like you are the one with a high opinion of yourself or you wouldn't be judging these other people.

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    • PsychoNikki

      I didn't say that I was smart/talented/beautiful etc. Unless you have difficulty reading and comprehending, that would've been obvious.

      Their behavior is egotistical, simple as that. Did I hit a tough spot dumb ass? No reason to be so hostile otherwise.

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  • You deleted and plagiarized my post. Isn't that the kind of arrogance you dislike in others?

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    • PsychoNikki

      I didn't intentionally delete your post, I accidentally pressed "hide" so don't get your panties in a bunch. And who the hell plagiarized you? Are you retarded?

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