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A boy having Erectile dysfunction faces great difficulty in penis Erection BUT
if the same boy goes for masturbation , Penis stands perfectly & its erection is also hard .
WHY ?
Why penis not goes hard in sex and it is rock hard at masturbation ?
I had this problem. There are 2 answer for this.
1# you watch a lot of porn, like, too much of it.
2# you are too stressed about having sex.
And by masturbating, even if it's not often, you will convince yourself that you have a problem.
By watching a lot of porn you have PIED, porn induced ED. You associate sex with masturbation + porn. Real sex is now boring. Sure the girl can be pretty. But she is also real and there with you, not behind a screen. Plus real sex has flavor.. smell.. you touch it, you live it, but not alone.
If you want to cure that, just stop masturbating and give up porn. I don't like nofap community because they are oftn elitist and religious. But I have to admit that PIED is a real thing + porn / a lot of faping make you a pussy that does not need a real girl and once you have a girl, it is not the sex you were expecting.
Source : myself and my sex doctor that told me that I should stop act like a little boy that got caught masturbating.
If you want to be less stressed, drink alcohol, not enough to be dead but enough to not care about anything AND just GO FOR IT, don't wait for a girl to say ''fuck me'', just do your thing UNTIL she said ''stop'' and if she does not say a thing, then it's good.
Because that's how it works, girls won't tell you, they will let you lead the dance.
My doctor told me that every man, young and old, if they can have a boner by themselves, the problem is just in the head.
1)watch lots of porn has nothing to do with it. I watch lots of porn,yet I can still get it up when time to fuck.
2) your Grammer is not good
Thanks 4 your concern :)
So I wanna tel u that :- i previously used to watch lots of porn & masturbate. From the age of around 13 till 21.
But now i dont watch porn neither fap because its now boring u know , I’ve done it a tons of times .
Anyways:- your advice of drinking alcohol is just to be LESS STRESSED or it will eventually cure my ED?
*Now here’s the deal , mate .( I can’t live without sex)
I tried many things to cure ED .
{ Kegels , diet , penis massage , OTC medicines , and etc } but still no use , except VIAGRA.
You are so concerned about having ED that you are not thinking about the sex itself. I have been there and it sucks. What helped me was having a night full of fun with a girl, drinking and loling so bad that my stress lvl was near to zero. You are acting like me when I was younger, I was thinking so bad about not being able to go hard that I was having ED.. you are wasting your time, the best thing you can do right now is talking to the girl and say that you are overly stressed, so much stressed that it block you. Or you can go to a psychologist and explain why you stress. Anyway, accepting and telling it will help you to understand that it is not a big deal, because the only problem here is you and your overthinking.
Let us come to the medical point of view . The reason behind ED is
Blood is not properly entering into the little arteries & sinuses within penis , as penis is bone-less tissue :- it requires blood supply to become erect.
Viagra opens those arteries and maintains a hard erection.
Now you tell me bro :- where the hack is my Psychology and being over -stressed is involved in all of this ?
Yes you listen like good boy listen mom. Nice, right? Right.
Now you have successfully sexy time. God bless me. Bye bye.
Boy tries sex, boy fail.
Boy tries masturbation, boy succeeds. Why boy succeeds? Cause boy masters masturbation.
Do you watch porn when masturbating?
Because psychological issues cause ED often. You’re either nervous with a female or not turned on by her, but ok alone. .
I tried many things to cure ED .
{ Kegels , diet , penis massage , OTC medicines , and etc } but still no use , except VIAGRA
Already tried to stay calm , dont be nervous , stay positive but didnt get results
I'm with you I can't live without sex. If Viagra works for you great,just becareful cause it can cause heart issues. I love to fuck,and the women that have rode my long cock have loved it. Not one complaint.ED is normal for some men,my advice to you is use whatever will help you get hard,and stay hard.
Don't lol, I try help, not funny. Is problem not serious or is? If no serious, why make ask?
Mmm. Then how boy knows peepee hard erect when masturbation occurs? Is you boy or not? Maybe OP ask for other boy, yes? No?
Maybe the problem is the woman. If the woman is a bitch or physically unattractive, It is going to be way more difficult to get an erection.
So you may just need a better looking woman.
Consider this - even a woman who is hellboundly obese will think she is sex-worthy just cause she has a vagina. But unless her mate just came from the jungles of Africa this morning, he will know better, as will his penis.
BTW "hellboundly obese" means she is so fat that she is going to hell for being so fat.