Enough sex to scare me.

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Ok here's the situation I'm 20 and my girlfriend of over a year is 17, we love each other and have a ridiculous amount of sex. I get worried that one day either one of us is going to flip out because of feeling like we are just together for the sex, or being used. The thought she is with me for sex has crossed my mind already, but I never said anything and maybe she has thought the same thing and it bothers me. I know it seems crazy to worry about but we have sex so much I'm scared our love could turn to lust. Can that happen or do we just have an intense attraction? And does a lot of sex make for a healthy relationship?

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  • deadmanwade
    14 years ago

    First off.. be careful not to piss her off until she turns 18. Seriously she could turn around and get you locked up my friend. Anywho too much of anything can be bad if it clouds over the entire relationship. It seems like you are in love with this girl but she just likes to get freaky all the time. Which btw you should greatly appreciate now. Younger women are as horny as young guys.. problem is as they get older their libido slows down. Which in a few years will leave the two of you arguing in the middle of blockbuster over what video to rent. Make sure you actually love her because I was in a similar situation when I was your age and one day I realized I had nothing in common about the girl. Make sure you are careful not to get her pregnant. That would really suck because that will take away the one thing you have in common and all of a sudden you are stuck with a chick you do not like. Now I could be wrong about her but try doing things together where sex is not an option. Like family gatherings or places where there are kids or nuns. And try having deep conversations. That might be kinda hard to do with a 17 year old girl because they can be rather dim-witted and shallow. But speak slowly and use small words. Actually you know what... you have it good now.. keep her mouth shut and continue having sex. Oh and do all kinds of freaky ish to her while you can.. when they get older they can be prudish.

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    • yuki_m
      14 years ago

      Someone above said "Younger women are as horny as young guys.. problem is as they get older their libido slows down. "

      Oh that is such a bunch of crap. Everyone knows womens' sex drive peaks in their mid 30s. I was horny at 18, hornier it 28, and now at 36 I keep my husband worn out. If an older woman has no interest in sex, it's because her partner is no good at it and she's lost interest in him.

      At your ages, it's probably just the sex keeping you together. Why question it? Enjoy it and each other as long as it lasts. If it ends, part ways and find someone else you can't keep your hands off of. :)

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      • Evralette
        14 years ago

        <3 I adore this comment alot

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      • Evralette
        14 years ago

        shitty buzz... my last post was suppose to say

        " I adore this comment alot (with a heart)"

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      • sex_is_dirty_disgust_dangerous
        14 years ago

        Women are never horny as men, this is from a biological standpoint. Women's drive peaks around 30 but it's still way below a man's.

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        • mazza019
          10 years ago

          I think not. Science, my friend. It all depends on testosterone levels, and some women have A LOT! :)

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  • olivia82
    14 years ago

    normal

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  • lemonlove
    12 years ago

    As long as you guys spend some time together thats not centered around sex its not a reason for concern.

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  • mandypandy92
    13 years ago

    and age of consent is 17, so u cant get in trouble... in illinois anyway

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  • mandypandy92
    13 years ago

    normal im 17 and my bf is 20 and we have sex everytime were together which isnt a lot cuz he lives an hour away, but we love eachother and its fun and its something that brings us closer which is always a good thing. doubt shes using you otherwise youd just be a guy shes sleeping with and it doesnt sound like that. so just enjoy it :)

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  • sjean
    14 years ago

    Normal. Been there for sure. It's just fun.

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  • mieoux
    14 years ago

    Wait is it legal or not? If it's legal don't worry about it have fun. If it's illegal you should stop and wait until she's legal.

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  • sex_is_dirty_disgust_dangerous
    14 years ago

    First of all, she's jailbait and you are breaking the law. Second of all, your relationship is just lust. Stop having sex and your relationship will improve greatly.

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  • BirdyMojo
    14 years ago

    Stop having sex, and see how your relationship turns out.

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal
    14 years ago

    Normal. You just lucked out and met someone you have super sex chemistry with, early. if you have feelings for her, it's obviously more than sex. Chill out and enjoy for all us sad bastards not getting any currently lol

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  • justmetalking
    14 years ago

    Some people would complain if you hung them with a new rope. Look, you are with a beautiful sexy girl who obviously adores you and cant get enough of you. Wake up every morning, fall on your knees and thank God for your blessings...no..really...do it, and then send her some flowers.

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  • applescruffs
    14 years ago

    Well, they always say too much sex is better than no sex!

    But she might be using you for sex or she really loves you and just wants to show you that.

    just a thought :)

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  • TheRedSheep94
    14 years ago

    who cares, your knobs wet right, and if she has that much sex with you, then she obviously loves it and you, otherwise she'd find some1 she likes thats good in bed :)

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