Engaged after a month or two and trying for a baby for revenge:iin?

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Not long ago, I was talking to a girl who was in my year at school. Since we've left, she generally seems to have been less than selective in her men [More on that at another stage, if you're desparate to know].

Anyway, she's been with her latest guy for almost two months. I have no clue about the whole story, but she told me during that conversation that she was trying for a baby. Why?

To get revenge on his ex, who has apparently almost led to them splitting up a couple of times, and I suppose to show that he's not interested in the ex any more and is interested in her.
She moved out of her parents' place for good a week or two ago and is living 24/7 with this new guy.

There's still a lot of the story I have yet to uncover, and I hate having this evil secret on me. I'd like to report her to social services or something just in case she does end up having this poor kid.

Is there anything you think I can/should do? Advice appreciated

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    I feel sorry for her and most of all the baby if she gets pregnant! she needs to grow the hell up. such immaturity is sickening. what a dumb bitch!

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  • underager
    12 years ago

    Women are always having kids for shitty reasons, so what else is new?

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  • jimdog
    13 years ago

    Couldnt have been bothered reading the whole thing but i skimmed it, maybe shes havin a child with this guy to trap him so he wont break up with her over his ex, if this comment does make any sence just pretend it was written by a retarded homeless chap with torrets

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    • BlueAlice
      13 years ago

      Haha! Yeah, your comment makes sense. Not heard much from/about her, though....

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Hahahaha this made me laugh. I love this response

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    Not for the right reason... Tsk tsk tsk

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  • BlueAlice
    13 years ago

    She seems genuinely happy with this guy (She's changed her surname on Facebook and her last status reads:

    I love my bby very much.... I'm now engaged to him :D so up yours to the 1ns who r tryin 2 split us upp!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    I've noticed that over the past week, several of her statuses have been deleted from Facebook. Only ones mentioning this guy and a couple of things she's written on friends' Walls. She's also refriended someone who she was friends with before, but her boyfriend wasn't speaking to.

    In fact, I'm almost wondering if he's controlling her.... but then again she has ADHD and can be very impulsive. Not to mention that she'll say on Facebook how much she and whoever he is are in love right from the beginning... and yet the longest she was with someone for was for 2 years.
    She even has a tattoo of his name, as far as I know. *shakes head*

    I think all I can say is thank heavens we don't live anywhere near each other and never did.

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    There is not a damn thing you can do. Just walk away from this situation having a little more knowledge about human behavior. Use this knowledge as a yellow flag so you will never end up in a situation like that for yourself.

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  • WolfDog
    13 years ago

    Having a revenge baby is NEVER a good thing to do. Sounds like he is forcing her to have a baby.

    That said, there is nothing you can do, unless you feel the baby is at risk, then you can call social services (or the police).

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