Empathy fetish?

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Is it normal for the feeling of empathy to be sexually arousing ?? I actually feel pretty bad about this.. but whenever I think about someone feeling depressed or having a bad life it makes me more attracted to them.

When I used to fantasize it wasn't about physically attractive people or sexual things. I have a couple characters and stories I made up for them, where negative things happen to them it turns me on. I am not a sadist though, it is not the pain caused to them that does it. Just the idea of making them feel better, turns me on.

Of course, I know this is pretty fucked up so I would never be able to tell them. But I just wanna know how bad it is, if I should stop, and how.

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  • Kevinevan
    6 years ago

    Do you often give people pity sex?

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    It could be related to hero or savior complex

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  • CozmoWank
    6 years ago

    Maybe it gives you the feeling of being needed?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yeah definitely,but it works even in the fantasies which are from 3rd person(I'm not in them) as I imagine the characters having to go thru negative experiences in their lives, I feel so bad for them, that I get turned on

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