Emotional abuse by video game characters

I think there should be some kind of warning label on games cause a lot of the characters talking to you are emotionally abusive. I guess the writers think it's clever. Often you only have a couple of dialogue options to respond, and can't kill them cause they're an essential NPC.

I know it's "just a game" but I feel depressed and angry when it happens. I talk to my therapist about the characters almost as much as my family, and I have nightmares.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    that L shape in tetris was always bullyin me

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    • LloydAsher

      Which one? I find the inverted L to be easier.

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  • Anonnet

    I'll play along.

    After reading the rest of the thread, the solution to this is pretty simple. Just don't play games with lots of dialogue, and avoid games with serious or depressing stories. There's a ton of good games in virtually every genre (except visual novels) that involve zero negative character interactions.

    And before you say "how would I know what to look for", it's simple, look up a little bit of gameplay or screenshots before buying. If you see anyone talking for any reason, the chance of there being abusive dialogue is very high. Of course, that's counteracted by how cartoony the colors are (for instance, Animal Crossing has tons of dialogue, but virtually no abusive dialogue... at least, not from anyone you can't make "disappear"). If you see a darker, moodier looking game, or one set in space, you should be wary even if you don't see dialogue in the screenshots.

    There are exceptions to this. Sometimes there isn't much of any dialogue, but then a voice clip randomly pops in calling you names ("have you tried dodging"). Sometimes the most colorful games can be the most mentally damaging (looking at you, Omori). Sometimes the dark, brooding game is pretty chill (Dark Souls). Just make sure to always check gameplay videos before you buy!

    And avoid visual novels like the plague. Stuff like Danganronpa would probably cause some mental-health days.

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    • Thanks for the ideas. I just don't see how it gives the game any value, to get personal with the player. I don't mind evil/dark dialogues just don't direct it at the player in a manipulative way especially if you don't give the character an option to reflect how the player feels about a given situation. I think this is hard to filter out just by watching gameplay videos.

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    ...You're being emotionally abused by video game characters? Okay.

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    • Yeah. And?

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      • Iambillythemenacetosociety

        Do you not realize how hilarious that sounds?

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        • LloydAsher

          I'm imagining them being yelled at by an npc in a voice that is shared by 20 other characters and already a couple bandits.

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  • my_life_my_way

    How are you that mentally weak

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  • spotato

    I feel like u blur real life with video games if it's affecting you like that. I want to say just get over it but I feel it's a bit deeper than that. Apart from avoiding games that trigger it I get the impression you don't have many goals if games really affect you that much. Maybe workout and have other hobbies too

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    It's not normal to want a disclaimer to avoid getting your feelings hurt. You gotta get over that and not let it ruin your fun.

    Honestly I LIKE when enemies in video games are assholes. XD

    On another note Pokemon hasn't had an asshole rival in years. When I was a kid and Blue would insult me in every encounter it motivated me to beat him and finish the game. They need to bring that back. Lol

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    • You need to be a bad person to some degree to write those dialogues. Why should I deal with someone else's problems especially if I'm playing something innocent like Pokemon?

      Also I'm not talking about enemies you can kill, I'm talking about the ones the game won't allow you to kill. It's cruel to the player.

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Perhaps video games aren't for you then. It's a bit pointless to play a game that's just going to hurt your feelings.

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        • Maybe but it doesn't happen that often.

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      • megadriver

        Because life ain't all sunshine and rainbows... Even in videogames, those are usually an altered representation of real life.

        If you're too affected by videogames, don't play them. With that said... special snowflakes do need to realize that the real world is harsh. Probably a lot harsher than whatever you experienced in the game.

        If you got issues with video game morality, maybe you shouldn't be on here...

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        • It's not about morality. I mean the characters are murdering each other. It's more in specific games where the game creator is trying to belittle you. It's much worse than in real life where strangers generally respect each other.

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          • LloydAsher

            Do they though? Respect eachother?

            Have you been out of your hometown? Do you know what it's like to be a minority? Or be an outsider in a place that dont take kindly to strangers?

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            • Do strangers come up to you in the grocery store and make unwelcome, personal remarks about you?

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  • Somenormie

    i like emotionally abusive characters because it adds more to the story but yeah i can understand your point

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  • SkullsNRoses

    If these games upset you so much why do you keep playing them? The money you spent on them is gone and if you’re not having fun playing them then what’s the point?

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    • They're 90% fun it's just those parts that ruin it.

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      • SkullsNRoses

        If it’s taking up half your therapy sessions and giving you nightmares I wouldn’t dismiss it so easily.

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  • Lusty-Argonian

    All I want is the option to kill Preston Garvey or children. I'll take either or but I'd like both

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  • darefu

    Turn it off, don't play games! This is not a lot different then I can't keep my son from looking at porn on the internet, sure you can, at least in your presence, unplug the damn thing!

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  • Vvaas

    lmao

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    From the looks of it, no. There is no point to your comment. So I ask again, what point are you trying to make here? Come on, it's rude to dodge a question.

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  • KholatKhult

    Red Dead Redemption 2 made me sad cause I felt bad for the little 3D feller but that’s about the extent

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    • He was respected by other characters for the most part. I didn't feel the dialogue writers had contempt for the player in that game.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You sound like you're too too sensitive for this stupid game.

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  • pronk

    you're really sensitive to the emotions to the characters. that's a good trait to have. just remember to detatch and see from birds eye view. you can't exactly get a warning on everything because people are too lazy to see through the detailing so it's best to be prepared instead

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    Your point is...?

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  • I think the writer & voice actor are projecting their mental disorder on me. It's gas lighting in a way. I don't feel that me reacting to someone's abuse is my fault.

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    • Iambillythemenacetosociety

      Actually, yes it is.

      Also, that's not what gaslighting is. Go open a dictionary.

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