Drugs, alcohol, and morals

I'm not morally against abusing drugs or alcohol.

I think its incredibly stupid. I think its a waste of time, money, and health. And why should I care about someone making a conscious decision to hurt themselves?

This doesn't apply to those who started due to medical issues (things that can be diagnosed, like depression not just a "ugh my gf left me" moment.)

If you do it when you're not causing problems for anyone else, heck go to town for all I care. I want to hurt/maim anyone who does cause problems, especially child abusers, robbers, and drunk drivers. But if you want to take some acid and proceed to try to jump off your roof... whatever, you knew the risks.

But even though I don't care what you do, I still think you're an idiot.

Is it normal?

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  • PeytonDamron

    Why are people getting angry at this person? He or she has the right to their own opinion and if this person wants to think we're stupid, let 'em! At least he or she isn't trying to control us and keep everything illegal even though it's a victim-less crime. Thanks!

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    • Thanks. It's not that I think any person is stupid, i think its a wasteful choice to make. I'm sure there are people who think some aspects of my lifestyle are stupid or wasteful. It's just an opinion. The focus of the question was not on "omg drugs are dumb!" but on "I'm not fervently condemning or supportive of drug use. IIN?" (Note "use" not "users")

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  • Yeah but when people self-medicate for "medical" reasons they're using drugs to escape rather than take responsibility for their problems. And that can lead to problems that can affect other people negatively, which is irresponsible.

    For example, a woman lives in a place where abortion is illegal and there is no access to contraceptives. She has sex, which is normal, and she becomes pregnant. She is not ready to have a baby, but it is illegal for her to abort it. So she drops out of school and throws her life away. She becomes very depressed and starts drinking during pregnancy to escape her sorrow. Her child is born with birth defects as a consequence.

    This woman had a psychological disease, depression, and therefore she was incapable of taking responsibility for her life. The alcohol addiction made her situation worse. The mother causing her baby to have birth defects is a negligent action that causes suffering. The consequence is morally wrong, the child did not choose to have birth defects and yet he must live with the complications for his entire life. However the mother was incapable of taking responsibility for her life, so *she* is not wrong, she couldn't control herself. Its just a sad situation.

    However, we can't prohibit drugs/alcohol to try to prevent these things from happening because we already tried that during alcohol prohibition in the 30s and it didn't work. Similarly, the drug war is a complete failure. How many times have you heard: "man, if heroin was legal, I would shoot it up." People use it if they want to, whether its legal or illegal. The drug war just fills up the prisons and makes violent people rich.

    Not only does prohibition fail in practice, but it isn't morally right. It sets a dangerous precedent- the government telling people what they can and can't do with their bodies. People deserve to choose how they want to feel. Many people without psychological diseases can use drugs/alcohol without throwing away their responsibilities by getting super fucked up or becoming addicted.

    However, its still wrong to tell even the people that want to get super fucked up every once in a while a party- or every day- what they can and can't do with their bodies. Yes, getting super fucked up once- or getting fucked up all the time- is not making a rational decision, because the individual isn't taking care of themselves nor their responsibilities. But its still a bad idea to let the government make that decision for them. If the state wants to help with the problem, then he best idea is to provide addiction clinics and psychiatric hospitals that accept all addicts and people with psychological disease, no matter what. Even if they have drugs in their veins or in their pockets.

    Point is, drug/alcohol addiction and abuse is a huge problem. You can't just pretend that drug addicts and abusers don't affect anyone when they get fucked up. When they neglect their responsibilities, they hurt other people. However, its a bad idea to try and *make* people stay away from drugs/alcohol. Its wrong and it doesn't work. The only solution that does work is providing a way out for addicts who have hit rock bottom. And have sensible laws, like the ones they have for alcohol. DUIs should be illegal. Giving drugs to a child should be illegal. Possession should not.

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  • jeebley

    "take some acid and proceed to try to jump off your roof"
    .....REALLY?? is that where we are?? To me that was the giveaway that yeh, you should maybe educate yourself a bit more.
    It can be quite comforting to take an extremist stance on something you dont know about; its nice to have strong convictions and be self-righteous. But to get closer to truth/reality you may have to swallow pride and ditch the black and white thinking!!

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    • It's called a "hyperbole." Please reread and try again.

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      • jeebley

        Oh ok, im with you. You're terribly clever! It's just that some people actually do think that happens, so it wasn't very clear. I normally find that an argument is a lot more solid when supported by actual facts, and wild exaggeration tends to undermine the point. Personally I support drug use in all forms because it is the basis of modern (and ancient) civilisation.

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  • westoptic

    I agree with you for the most part but I think you should do more research into drugs before you consider them a waste of money, time and health. I have always suffered from horrible anxiety, many nights I've spent up having panic attacks, vomiting, horrible headaches, because I'd get so worked up over things. This year I smoked marijuana for the first time, it was March 13th, I remember distinctly, and since then I've gotten ahold of myself and have control over my anxiety, it doesn't control me anymore. Marijuana helps me sleep, takes away my sick stomachs that I get from anxiety, my social anxiety is basically non existent now whereas before my heart would start racing and my head would spin just having to order my food at a restaurant because I'd be so scared of looking at or talking to the waitress. It's helped me be less judgmental of people, I've made a lot of friends and discovered so much about myself and other people and social stigmas and things like that. It makes me feel good, to me, its money well spent.

    Two months ago I was prescribed Cipralex, 20 MG a day, because I went to see a psychologist to discuss my anxiety. Not only did it destroy my sex drive, make me sick, and give me trouble sleeping, but it fucked up my head big time and one night I was just sitting in my living room all alone and it was like dark clouds just invaded my mind and I had no control over what I was doing. I got up, walked into my kitchen and opened up my medicine cabinet, started calculating whether I had enough sleeping pills, anti depressants, tylenol 3 and cough syrup to just make a big cocktail and kill myself.

    I had to physically tell myself "Its that medication, suicidal thoughts are a side affect, just go to bed". I went outside, smoked a joint, calmed myself down enough to go to bed, and I haven't taken those pills since.

    Before you judge because we spend our money on drugs, maybe you should point your finger at all the people who spend their money on legal drugs and end up having health problems and mental health problems. Legal drugs kill more people every year then illegal drugs do.

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  • Prince_of_Crows

    As long as you leave the people who do drugs without causing problems alone, then yes, perfectly normal. Believe and think what you want, but let's all just keep our shit to ourselves.

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  • bananaface

    Yeah, I think it is normal. I don't think I agree, though, not entirely. I personally don't think people know enough about drugs. You say they know the risks, but I don't think that's always the case. It certainly is a lot of the time, but I also don't think a lot of people know enough about drugs to make an informed decision.

    I guess I sort of feel sorry for them because of all the hate they get. I usually view people who have drug and alcohol addictions as victims. I personally think anyone is capable of being in that situation, when put under certain circumstances. However, I guess most people aren't put under circumstances which would lead them down that road. Maybe I'm being completely naive, it's just that I tend to be a bit iffy about blaming someone for something that I think they can't help. Is having a self destructive personality *really* their fault?

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    • I personally think there is enough awareness out there that no one can claim ignorance. But regardless, the path to drugs is a conscious decision, and the decision to continue using, and the decision to not get help to break an addiction... With the few notable exceptions, those who end up with a drug-controlled lifestyle are there because of THEIR poor decision making.
      I'm not condemning anyone for it - if you want to smoke or get wasted or high, go ahead and have fun. Just dont bother me, and don't expect any pity from me when it backfires.

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      • bananaface

        Me?:S But I rarely drink alcohol, and I've never tried smoking or drugs. It is possible to feel sympathy for someone without having went through it, you know. I think it's very normal to call them stupid. Perhaps they are. With the amount of risks we're told about, it seems foolish that anyone would go against that. I personally think it can happen to anyone, though. We're all stupid at times. Mistakes happen.

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  • badmanalive

    DMT will open your mind and you will never be the same.

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  • Sador1960

    ...after alcohol was legal again, largely due to tax revenues it becomes apparent that drug use is subjective. Yes alcohol & nicotine are drugs too & many people are hooked on those as well. But as long as they're taxed then the gov't says they're ok. And even though the other drugs can temporarily send you out of your mind, it's still up to you & others whether they're right or wrong, financially legal or not.

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  • Sador1960

    1914 approx., is the year that heroin & coke became illegal. Earlier those drugs were used a lot, even in old Coka Cola. Then alcohol, legal 1st then illegal with prohibition in the late 20's, then legal sgain

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    It doesn't sound like you're very educated about drugs or what they actually do to you. Alcohol is good for you when used in moderation (as in like, a glass or two of wine in the evening) and even if you binge drink (defined by the law as more than 1 drink per day) there's a big difference between getting a little tipsy now and then and being a bloody alcoholic.

    Cannabis is essentially harmless and treats many medical ailments. Only illegal because other companies didn't want the hemp industry getting in the way of their business.

    Psychedellics are fantastic when used correctly by mature, intelligent individuals in moderate doses. Losing touch with reality on psychedellics usually involves someone who is uneducated taking too much, and they can cause severe panic attacks and short psychotic episodes, which is why you're always supposed to have an experienced psychonaut remain sober to talk you down/restrain you in the event of a bad trip.

    Physically speaking, Cannabis and psychedellics can't really hurt you when used intelligently.

    Drugs like Meth, Heroine, Crack, PCP.... different story. When you hear about someone eating their own hands or getting naked and attacking people and shit like that? It's probably PCP. The others will destroy your body and take your life if you're not careful.

    There are good drugs, there are bad drugs, and there are drugs that depend on how you use them.

    If you would like to educate yourself more, www.erowid.com has a great reputation for reporting factual information about psychoactives and they cite all their sources very well.

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    • I am aware that there are individuals with the ability to control their use of drugs or alcohol. There are also those who can't. Whether they are a casual user or abuser is not my point - and I did mention that this has no bearing on those with medical problems.

      I don't condone using, or condemn using. Drunk frat boy, pot smoking hippie, bath salt zombie - the only thing that would upset me is any damage caused to other people by the drug user.

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        I was more so responding to the negative attitude you seem to have towards all users.

        "But even though I don't care what you do, I still think you're an idiot."

        You would have to think a lot of highly intelligent people are idiots to honestly believe that. I just know good, factual information on a lot of these things is still hard to find among all the strong opinions people have on these topics, I like to spread knowledge when I can. :)

        I do agree with you for the most part, I'm one of few people I know who refuses to drink and drive. Even if I'm under the legal limit I still don't like to, and it worries me to think about what could happen. :/ People seem to have some invincibility complex that I just don't understand.

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        • Ahh well that's more of a "don't come crying to me when shit happens" attitude I guess. Plus I still think its a waste of money. Even intelligent individuals I've met in college, incredibly talented, they'll get distracted by whatever their choice is (usually alcohol) and end up flunking out. Or the choice to use an illegal drug, then ending up at court over it. Not arguing about legalizing drugs or banning alcohol or anything, but to me the risks - jail time, injury fron misuse, loss of opportunities - just aren't worth it

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          • shade_ilmaendu

            Still, lots of intelligent individuals have gone on to do great things. Steve Jobs, Carl Sagan, hell even Cheech and Chong do pretty well for themselves. XD I know there are more, I've seen some things highlighting famous people who did drugs and were successful... mostly people who smoked weed or experimented with psychedellics in moderation.

            Not to mention most of the musicians you probably listen to. ;P

            Getting in too deep with the alcohol is one of the quickest ways to fuck yourself over in my opinion. Technically it's a hard drug and should be classed up there with Cocaine and Heroine and things like that in terms of harm and addictive potential, but it's dressed up by society to seem like a harmless behavior. Think people would start riding the H train if it came in little glasses with umbrellas and fruit? XD

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            • 1000yrVampireKing

              Just because someone is a star does not mean they are brilliant or respectable people. They are talented of course. It does not mean they are very worthy of being admired. Many of these famous people are a train wreck. None of us should inspire to be like. Using all your cash to drink and smoke till you puke each night while neglecting to take care of your kids. Even though you make more in a day than most do in a year is not something to be admired. While in the day are singing about "fuck me hard" and have sextapes of 4 men jamming dicks in you.

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          • 1000yrVampireKing

            The issue is this does harm others if you think it does or not. If someone gets drunk or high and lets say kills someone they might not have realized what they are doing. If someone drinks and drives and crash they injured or possibly killed some people. This indirectly will create suffering for their family as well with medical bills or grief over family death. Second hand smoke creates health issues for those around you. If you get drunk or high and have sex and get pregnant depending you might not want to be stuck with the kid. If you do not have the means others are forced to take care of this problem. If it be tax payers or the family of them. So believe it or not it affects all of us. Not just some. My parents went to a concert and was attacked by a guy high on pcp. They had a man who ate a homeless guy because he was on bath salt. So it does create damage to others. Desperate druggies will also kill and steal to feed an addiction in many cases. So does that really make the none users safe?

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  • dirtybirdy

    Sure.

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  • dappled

    I've smoked and drank in my life and currently do neither (although there is still alcohol in the house so it'll probably get chipped away at but then not replenished). For anyone thinking of starting, both smoking and drinking (to excess) have caused me some symptoms that have scared the living shit out of me.

    I can't sit here and recommend people don't start when I've already had my fun (plus drinking has been my only reliable cure for insomnia and my lack of intake means that my total number of minutes of sleep clocked up last night is zero and probably will be little more than zero until after Christmas).

    But smoking in particular was a pointless habit to take up and I'm glad I don't do it any more. I agree with you that I was an idiot for taking it up, because my reason was that my friends smoked and also I thought I was less likely to get beaten up on dark streets if I was smoking a cigarette.

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