Double standerd girlfriend?

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So i've been with my girl for a bout 10 months now, and we were out one night with some friends when she admitted that she kinda gets jealous when I meet up with, or text my girl mates. This rocked me, but then made me think, because she always texts this Kid who's a lad, quite a lot and most days, and they meet up sometimes. I cxan't quite get my head around it, so its alright for her to constantly text and every so often meet this lad up, but when i text or meet my girl mates she gets kinda jealous...
Advice would be great thanks (:

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    That's just not right, you have to stand up for yourself. Tell her to either stop seeing the guy or stop nagging you.

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  • DB87
    13 years ago

    Typical girl !

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  • stillwondering
    13 years ago

    Call her out on her double standard.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    she not nagging him... she just openly admited her feelings... she's not crazy and telling you not to see your girls, it just makes her a bit jeaous, which is normal and really not within her control. You guys seem to trust one another, if she liked her guy friend as anymore then a friend i'm sure she'd be a little more suspicicious of you. NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT

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  • Omega-Claws
    13 years ago

    I know how you feel. If I hang out with female friends my gf gets really jealous but she let her guy friend (ex bf) stay the night and when I said how I felt she yelled at me and treated me like shit for it.

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  • bella1975
    13 years ago

    Sound unhealhty ...

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  • I_am_not_normal
    13 years ago

    Not fair.. Tell her how you feel

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Rocked? >.>

    Anyways if she doesn't want you to talk to and hang out with other chicks then she should have the respect to not text and hang out with other men. Simple as that. If she can respect that dump her.

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  • Ratso
    13 years ago

    Sry to tell u but alotta girls i know think like that. But talk to her, and maybe it'll be resolved

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Relationships (and love) are not about controlling someone, some people have a difficult time understanding that. Tell her how you feel.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    as long as she don't ask you to stop doing it then you shouldn't care if she is jealous or not. Careful tho cause this may lead to unhealthy relationship :)

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  • Not_Who_I_Say_I_Am
    13 years ago

    you know.. ask ur teacher for advice.

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