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I have been told i have very high standards for girls, but i dont see why i should settle for less. Given, i value intelligence, humor, compatibility, etc. very highly, but looks are also very important. And, no offense or bigotry intended, i avsolutely cannot see how any women besides caucasian women are considered attractive. Is it normal?
Being picky about women is a very, very good thing that will spare you alot of grief in life.
You can't see how women besides caucasian women can be considered attractive?? Most guys that are sooo picky, in reality themselves look like trolls or ogres. So a beautiful dark woman in your eyes is considered unattractive? And let me guess, you're God's gift to women??? When really I bet you look like something that got pulled out my ass.
You're making the mistake of thinking that everyone sees the world the same way that you do. Because you don't find women from other races attractive, does that mean that the men from their race also shouldn't find them attractive? You're saying everyone has to think like you that white is beautiful and everything else is ugly?
In fact, I have made no such mistake. Please don't jump to conclusions like that. Every man is entitled to his preferences; in fact, preferences are intrinsic. So I have not offered the premise that everyone should be similar. I would crack open a whole can of objectivism, but this is a fun website. In short, your assumption that I desire my opinions to rule others is preposterous. And it's not even like my opinion is that influential. Just chill.
And FYI, if I was the most staunchly racist person on this planet, I would not be infringing on the rights of others, so no one else would have grounds on which to deride my ideas.
And yes, white women, to me, are the prettiest. Get over it. There are all sorts of people out there who like everything.
Actually you did make that mistake when you said, "i avsolutely cannot see how any women besides caucasian women are considered attractive". Mispellings aside, like dappled said just because you don't find women of others races attractive doesn't mean other guys have to feel the same way you do. Your preferences are fine, but stick to "I" only think white women are attractive and leave it at that. "Every man is entitled to his preferences" is correct. Had you stuck to that premise your post would have sounded more intelligent.
Sorry to disagree with you, but the phrase, like you said, includes the word "I" in it. I thereore did only stick to my own opinion. I acknowleged the fact that it is strictly from my perspective. But nevermind. It's not a big deal. And, even if I didn't acknowlege that It is strictly from my own perspective, it should be known that every statement each person says comes from his or her own cognition and is therefore an "I" statement.
Anyone know if there is such a website where you can anonymously discuss and debate things with other people? Thanks.
Hard_Candy completely understood what I was getting at, and has already said it. You may not have meant what you said, but you can't judge us for taking you at your word.
Why not? I have picky standards for guys as well.
Intelligence, interesting, decent looks. And I am only able to find Asian men attractive most of the time. (Not always.)
What's wrong with having high standards?
I understand having standards especially physical standards, but I've found Indian women are quite beautiful. Mexican women can too be beautiful. I've also seen beautiful Asian and black women. I too am a female.. and am Caucasian..
You're normal, i think i have high standards too for guys. And I mostly only find caucasian guys attractive. Some people only like other people of their colouring, but others like the complete opposite; you're allowed to have a preference (without it being considered racist). Don't settle for less (in terms of personality) than what you would like. If you're going to date someone it needs to be someone you'd actually respect.
so what's the problem? Are non-white girls trying to get on you? Don't question your preferences guy. it's all good. besides, you'll probably get horny enough to fuck any old slut eventually. it's all good. we all do it.
I wish I could find the image I'm thinking of but no luck.
If you take 100 different average women of any single ethnicity and lay them on top of each other you get the standard of beauty of each individual race. From French to Irish to Polish to Indian, to Thai, to Sengalese. Every one was beautiful. It's an amazing picture to see. I wish I could find it.
Well, I'd say It's normal. It's good to have some sort of standards and not just take practically any girl.
Anyway, it is your opinion and taste so.. Good for you! And if you only find white girls attractive.. Good for you!
Have a nice day! :D