Dont know what to do about her

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I'm new here and signed up just to tell my story and get some advice. I will try and keep it short.

Ok so me and this girl have known each other since my freshman year. I am 21 now, and ever since freshman year we would be real close and almost dating. Well it would be that way for a month or two then we would get into a fight and stop talking for like 3 months. Then somehow, someway, we would always just start talking again just like we would before and we would get to the point where we were almost dating again, then the same thing would happen. Get in a fight and stop talking. Well just recently she called me and wanted to hang out so we did and we talked about why we do this. We came to the conclusion that she can't date because she doesn't trust guys, and I couldn't just be friends with her because my feelings were to strong for her. Well at the end of the night we ended up kissing. So my question is what should I do now? Does this mean she wants to date me now? Would a girl kiss a guy for any other reason other then she likes him? I don't know what to do or think! Please someone help!

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  • lovergrl
    12 years ago

    She's confused. She doesn't know what she wants. I'm pretty sure she likes u though

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  • atomic-water
    12 years ago

    haaaa love you know is verry con fusing if you feel its right go for it tell her that yoou wanna be more then frends and ask why she dosent trust you or aneybody else and say you will never hurt her stuff like that but i know its easyer said then done but its worthit trust me

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  • Whitneyhouston
    13 years ago

    Take it slow, don't try to trap her or get any definate answers out of her. Also don't give her reasons to hate you, so always call her back and be honest :)

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  • Pee-Drinker
    13 years ago

    She's been hurt before and don't trust guys take it slow and don't give her a reason to not trust you

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  • bdarbe
    14 years ago

    i wish it was that easy

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Ask her.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    maybe she is playing games. how exhausting. i wonder if she's worth it then.

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  • bdarbe
    14 years ago

    ever since that night she has said she wants to talk to me. So i text her and try to talk but all she replies with is one word answers. yeah, cool, k, o, no, yes. and the texts i send aren't considered to be answered in one word. Shes either not interested, or playing hard to get. I DON'T KNOW!!

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  • ThePudgyOne
    14 years ago

    Yeah, I gotta agree with cgirl which makes perfect sense. Don't be played on. This scheme is sort of common around when i go to the institute and confront the ladies around.

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  • bdarbe
    14 years ago

    ^^^^ well that was what one of our fights was a while back. She told me she loved having me around, but then the very next day she just blew me off. So as a result we stopped talking. So back then i felt like she was leading me on, but now i think its different... maybe im just to dumb to see what she is doing to me.

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    • mtnw
      14 years ago

      you know, you never really know until you try. i hope for your sake that this works out for you. but if you don't try, nothing will ever come of it.

      the dating doesn't have to be you spending all your money on her either. just doing something together is enough.

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  • cgirl123456
    14 years ago

    IS she playing games? Or are you two really close?

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    • cgirl123456
      14 years ago

      Do you feel like equals, or do you feel like you're always trailing behind her, hoping for attention? Because if she's leading you on, then she's a jerk.

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  • bdarbe
    14 years ago

    Ok that is something i can do for sure. I just always get a little nervous around her but i think that would stop if i just knew if she likes me. Its good to hear you think she obviously likes me, that should give me some confidence. Thanks for the help, and any other advice or comments would be appreciated.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    take her out to dinner or the movies. when you pick her up, have flowers in your hand for her. i think you two should just start dating. it's obvious she likes you and you her, so why not try to get her to trust you. act like a gentleman, i think that will work.

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