Dont know if im an accident or not, im too old to go on like this

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I'm having a normal conversation about dreams with my parents. I'm talking about how I might be related to a YouTuber. Just that second, my mum, who just so happens to be drunk, says "Do you know how you were born?" and my dad didn't really react, until_ "WE GOT REALLY DRUNK ON CHRISTMAS AND HAD SEX" Now, this wouldn't really bother me, apart from the fact we were talking about relationships. I'm defiantly related to my mother, we're just like each other, but my dad and I. I'm not sure. I've never really thought about it. My older sister looks like him, but my older sister was... planned. The fact that I was born from two freaking alcoholics (they're not alcoholics... but they get drunk at the worst of times...) because they decided to get into bed and have sexual 'contact' for no freaking reason, just thought, its Christmas, like so many idiots do, and they gave birth to me. "what do you want to call her?"
"I never really thought about that, she WAS an accident."
The thing is, I'm not sure if my dad is my dad... and I'm terrified about it... thanks for reading.

your an accident, so what? 13
don't worry 'bout it 9
Your not an accident 5
Your an accident, but almost everyone is 14
your not an accident.... your a mistake... 2
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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    Doesnt make u any more or less of a person either way

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    What if your parents love you even though you were an accident? I mean, really really were glad that you were born?

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  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    Believe it or not your parents have a sex life too and yes people get drunk and have sex all the time thats how so many people are born. I remember once hearing my father tell my sister she was born cuz my parents were having wine and cheese, so your story isn't so uncommon. My husband is born sept 1st...new years eve baby much? People drink more on holidays esp if they arent alcoholics. Just because you were a mistake that doesnt mean you werent a welcomed mistake.

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  • PeytonDamron
    9 years ago

    I love how you said "because they decided to get into bed and have sexual 'contact' for no freaking reason." There's obviously a reason. It's called pleasure. I'm pretty anti breeding, the world is overpopulated as it is and I never want children. Doesn't mean I don't like having sex. And who the fuck cares if you're an accident? It really doesn't matter one way or the other. Most people are. I wasn't planned and I don't know many people who were.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    A lot more people are not planned than planned cause a lot of peoples parents are stupid and careless. So thank Mom and Dad for being stupid and careless!

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Why would it bother you if your birth was not planned?

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    My daughter was not planned but I say she was a pleasant surprise!
    I think most kids are not planned...that doesn't mean your not related to your dad... also having sex on xmas or any time ever is healthy in a relationship.

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  • CoraCook
    9 years ago

    So.... You born a Virgo or a Libra?

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    • CoraCook
      9 years ago

      But yeh, I hear ya. Mom said she wished for cute chubby girl and got it. I think I was supposed to be an abortion. She'll never disclose, I'm sure.

      It doesn't matter, we're here!!!

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    They were married when you were conceived right? Your sister was planned so I'm assuming you aren't referring to a random hook-up, right? I'm confused on how this makes you question your fathers paternity...and also why you seem to find it weird that, as a couple, they might want to have sex whenever they want.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Who cares if neither of them are really your parents or whether they even wanted you. You are a grown man with your own life ahead of you, the past in this respect is insignificant.

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