Don't want sex ever.

You don't necessarily need to have sex to have a good relationship. Don't spend too much time worrying about it. Enjoy your friendships and your life.

Yes you are normal !!!!!!
My wife and I have been married 43 years and 30 without intimacy or sex. I just don't like it and the intimacy think gives me the creeps.
I can't answer for my wife, but what ever she does I don't want to know about it, I just don't care. Its a good arrangement she does her thing and I do mine. IT WORKS !!!

maybe you're asexual?

Seems normal enough to me; getting naked for anyone makes me uncomfortable too. Lots of people hate being intimate, so I wouldn't worry about it.

The first time always sucks. It took me a year to enjoy having sex and longer to orgasm during it.

ya go with the first persons advice you should probablly try it when your not drunk with some one special:)

Someone else just posted the exact same story. Like I told him, as long as you're happy there is no need to worry. But if you are unhappy with it, perhaps you could seek counseling. Have you ever been intimate with someone you actually cared about? Maybe that is the problem.

:)

I personally think you're normal. Nothing's wrong with it. But Maybe, about the intercourse, you didn't feel anything because you were drunk. If you're not satisfied at all, maybe you should do it again unintoxicated. :)

Maybe u need to have sex with a girl

Weird but some people don't have a libido

After your one sexual experience, I'd say your reaction towards sex is normal. Don't give up on it yet, though. I was terrified of intimacy when I was in my early 20's. Then one day I met someone and something switched on that wasn't there before and, damn.... intimacy was something I craved. Now, we're happily married! Some people just need to meet the right person.

I would suggest talking to a counselor and having the condition discussed with a professional and allow them to work through this.

Whether you want sex or not is totally irrelevant, but the disdain for intimancy is a sign of trauma that you are shutting down this part of your emotions and at 21 you can work through them and live a happy and healthy life.

No

I feel the same. Sex does nothing for me so I only hAve sex with some one I love because I know they like it. And if I want something;) jk

You should eat more dark chocolate. That should help you.

It is not normal. I agree with the person above. Otherwise if you want to become normal and enjoy sex, I strongly suggest getting a gigolo. If you want to continue despising intimacy but fell a womanly urge to have sex go get raped. It shouldn't be too hard these days.

Your going to make a one good nun.

Don't force the issue; it will come with time. And def. don't sleep with someone sober just to see if you feel different than drunk. That is TERRIBLE advice! I used to feel the same way - absolutely NO sexual feelings- but then someone kissed me and it all changed....a woman. I didn't know I could have sexual desire for a female. I knew that I liked women and I liked men, but the sexual desire didn't come until I was in a healthy, loving relationship. We've been together almost 3 years now. It's like my libido was lying dormant until the right person came along.

Man your lucky, I wish i felt this way then I wouldn't be so worried about staying virgin my whole life...

I'm the same way. I don't have a need or desire to have sex with other people. However I have issues with sexual abuse. Have you ever had a negative sexual experience that would make you want to distance yourself from sexual intimacy? If so, it would be good for you to get some counseling to help you work it out.

You may not have found the right person. One time I had sex with someone I wasn't truly insterested in and I felt the exact same way. I was repulsed and didn't want to have any sort of sexual contact with anyone afterwards... but then I met someone I was really into and we ended up having sex and it was so good.

Don't completely reject intimacy. It may be that you just weren't with the right person or haven't been in the right situation to receive it.

sec is a banding moment if u do it without love is meaningless

Abnormal. Asexual. Do not think anything of it. It's not like anyone will give you trouble for it, but that's probably the least thing you're worried about. So you don't want sex. It's not like it is the end of the world.

I will say abnormal though because the majority of people are not like this.

I think you should try to meet someone get to now them and wait until you feel that intensity and emotion for them.

I am kind in the same boat I am not that sexual either. When I lost my virginity I hated it I felt uncomfortable and weird and whish I had waited for some one who actually cared for me. Mine was also a drunken one night stand.

you should never attempt sex when intoxicated.
sex should be with a person you care about and who cares about you, someone you feel comfortable with and whom you trust.
intimacy is a beautiful thing, it just has to be done with the right person.
plus it should be done while both of you are fully aware of what's going on, not under the influence of a substance.

you'll figure it out

Where you abused before?

you are normal...hating on the other hand is deff a stong word. at the time the sex took place, you were drunk and incapable to feeling good or comfortable. not wanting to have sex or relationshions for awhile is perfectly fine....however you dont want to always feel this way. having relations with someone and exspressing your self in senual ways with a person is healthy. when you feel more comfortable with your self you will be able to open up to another person and feel good about it.....DONT THINK YOUR NOT NORMAL CAUSE YOU DONT HAVE INTEREST

didnt feel it? wow thats unfortanate... i think you should give sex another shot, and someone should tell the man who had sex with you that he needs to learn how to love a woman. being uncomfortable naked is normal, hating intamcy though, not so much. i think its because you havent found someone your comfortable being intimate with.

Is it sexual relationships or sexual desire period?

If you have a healthy libido you might want to consider what it is about relationships that is difficult for you because that level of intimacy includes but goes beyond sexuality.

If you don't have much libido you might want to see your Dr about what is going on.

It sounds like your first experience was traumatic. Being tenative about sex after a negative introduction is natural, but if you feel that it's impeding your sex life you should seek professional help.

i know what you are going through im not attracted to either a guy or a girl ( im bisexual) and i look at a guy and fell nothing the same with a female so you are not alone

I think I understand you.

That's because you're first sexual experience was a bad one so it has effected the way you feel overall about sex. Maybe one day in the future you can have sex with someone you are into and you will feel something because there is a connection.

But yes it is normal sometimes it is best that sex is out of you're mind so you can continue being independent and do whatever it is you want from you're life

IT is normal. if you continue your education and be in a good position then you will desire anything you like. but now sex or no sex this is waste of time and at the end you would be losing.!!!!

Having sex or even kissing someone you don't love, for me at least, SUCKS. Its... empty feeling... But if you don't like intimacy, I'm not sure what to tell you. It's whats makes it feel incredible. But dont force yourself into something you don't want, you'll never enjoy it. Maybe you should be a nun lol jk

No IT IS NOT NORMAL to hate intimacy. I think it has become all to common for people to accept the fact that intimate relationships are falling away. Human beings are supposed to enjoy and seek intimacy, its natural and supports a healthy lifestyle both physically and mentally.

Its pretty universal that the first time you have sex, it's no good (for a girl).

Like many have said, try it again with someone you love. I doubt your intimacy issue will change, but there are sex positions that can counter that (eg. doggy).

try it again with someone you love, it wil feel totaly different to your first time

SEX is awesome and you need a guy who knows what the heck his doin

you probably had some kind of trauma during your childhood. you need therapy and then you'll get it sorted. unless ur asexual.