Don't want anyone else to have my ex

I know for some people it's normal to still be in love with an ex, but is it normal for me to not want her to be with anyone else if I can't have her? I can't even imagine someone else touching her or her touching them. I can't quit thinking about the day she meets someone, and it causes me to be really, really sad and down. She is okay with me seeing someone though, and I don't understand how when she claims how hard this break up is and she still loves me.

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Comments ( 17 )
  • CrimzonRayne

    There are a lot of people out there who don't want to be with their ex, but they don't want them to be with anyone else either.
    It's called jealousy, and it's fucking normal.

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  • tampabayallstar

    My advice go about your life and completely shut this lady out of your life. Even if you are jealous, do not let her know. Cry your eyes out in private. Once this lady realizes you are dating others and living your life without her, emotions inside her will play tricks with her and she shall yearn for you again. If she does not come back, at least you are getting used to having a life again. Trust me, You do have a much better chance of getting her back ,as opposed to no chance, if you follow my advice and completely shut this lady out of your life and live your own.

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    • horrorking13

      Ok, but what if you have a kid together and all you want is to get away from all the pain shes put you through.

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  • swag93

    this is normal. im sorry for you, but the good news is i PROMISE these feelings will subside. ive been through it many times. and eventually you will be over her and it wont bother you at all

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  • mtnw

    staying friends or even in contact after a relationship ends doesn't work. somebody's hurt just keeps going on and on.

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  • waitforwinter

    I feel you, bro. :/

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  • seanross301

    We can't avoid that lingering feeling we have for our Exes... In my case, I've had the second chance to make our relationship again after a 2 and a half year breakup. Unfortunately, we did part ways permanently and are happy with our current partners. We still remain friends but we needed that second chance in our relationship to realize that we're not meant to be.

    This is a good read if you too want to have a second chance with your ex: https://www.mensaxis.com/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back-with-these-4-steps/

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    • Murun

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  • davegrohl

    100% normal
    you just gotta get over this, time will help you forgetting her and your jeaulousy

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  • supaflyafro

    ur just not over her yet. u care for her too much and im guessing u wish ud never met her in the 1st place cuz she makes u feel this way. its ok. its perfectly normal

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  • heartbrokenbutterfly

    normal, but selfish. if you really love someone you should want them to be happy.

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  • faisoly

    I Agree with tampabayallstar Get A Life MAN , U Will No Longer Care that much

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  • idk

    itz pretty normal because you had strong feeling for her...and they just dont go away...although you should control yourself abit in the sense that she is gone and you should move on.

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  • Fruitcake35

    It's normal, you have feelings for her still. I'd be the same way if me and my boyfriend broke up.

    Though you should understand that she is not your girlfriend any longer and you should attempt to let it go. It will take time, though.

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  • casualcrow

    If she's okay with you being with someone else then she's probably not taking this as hard as you are. she probably lied

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  • Extremist

    That's kinda strange becuz if she's not your girlfriend anymore, than yes u should let her meet up with some other guy since she's not part of yor companion anymore.. Your ex-girlfriend is now just your friend..

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