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I don't like sex. I like women, I like being around them, going out with them, kissing them, even a little x-rated fun but the actual act of sex does nothing for me. It's boring and I can't really get it up. Normal?
Not normal, but everyone has their quirks. There's someone out there for you.
I thought that you may be asexual at first, however, you still like being hard and certain "x rated" things. I don't know what these "x rated" thing include, though, so I don't know how to determine your sexuality. Maybe seek therapy? But I don't know if you feel that you WANT to eventually be able to be sexually active in the way that you say that you can't. But if you DO, therapy might help.
You might be asexual. You seem like you are interested in women romantically, but not sexually. That's okay. :) There's no cure for it. I highly advise against seeing a sex therapist about it. I don't think that average sex therapist would understand the concept of asexuality.
You might be asexual... Seek a sex therapist, they'll be able to help you.
Well, no wonder. I can imagine how frustrating sex would be if you "can't really get it up". I'd guess that's where the problem lies (and it can't be much fun for your partner, either) and what you should be concentrating on. Have you tried Viagra? If that doesn't work, it may be a medical problem; see a doctor.
I wrote my question a bit quickly I think. So to include more details.
I'm not impotent at all, everything works just fine up until the actual going in part when it doesn't. I assume this is psychological. I have had sex, takes a bit of effort to get things going and the actual process of, for lack of a better word, fucking someone I just find tedious and boring.