Don't like people groping me

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If I go to a club (Which is rare) and guys are coming up and wanting to dance with me, I don't really like dancing with them.. I don't like how they're groping me and trying to make me want them haha. All my friends seem to love it though :S So is there something wrong with me? Like when I'm at a club I just start laughing. because everyone is fist pumping and I feel like such a phony. Is it weird not to be attracted /want to take home any of these guys? I just can't get into it.

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  • phillipphung94
    13 years ago

    Really? You don't like being sexually harassed? That's very odd.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago

    No, I feel the same way. I find most guys in clubs to be a complete turnoff. I think because they all grease their hair back and try to look hot, and I just get turned off by guys who TRY to look attractive. I like guys who are more natural. I find the whole club scene to be embarrassing and ridiculous incredibly awkward. Last weekend I witnessed a legit fist pump and dude wore sunglasses inside all night. I don't even know how he can live with himself. What a joke.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Meh, the club scene is overrated anyway, and I think it's weirder to not care who's touching you or how than to not want to be treated like meat, so good for you. :)

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  • DC61091
    13 years ago

    You just might not be a whore.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Just don't go to clubs? Most guys want one night stands there anyways.

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    It seems the norm nowadays guys never happy until they feel your ass or tits

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Groping only belongs in the sack well doing it well standing

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  • Decoder7
    13 years ago

    I wear sunglasses in clubs sometimes...nout wrong with that tbh

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  • Mimosa
    13 years ago

    I don't like it too but if you go to clubs, such things are inevitable. Clubs are where people sort of de-evolved and get back to nature.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    The scene is a metonymy for sexual congress. And you either buy into it or you don't. Personally, I find it repulsive to be so obvious and ignorant. But I accept that some people only have that way of being. It's fine. And if you want to go along with it, that's fine also. I don't criticise them, hopefully they don't criticise me.

    If you want a different way of working, where you actually get to know what someone thinks, then that's available to you too. Just not generally in a club.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^ I know right .__.

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  • Your_Neighbor
    13 years ago

    It's perfectly normal to not liked to be groped (Sexually Harassed), Your friends are most likely drunk or weird if they enjoy it. If they are drunk...then please avoid doing so yourself.

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