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I have been with my partner for many years. I thought I found my soul mate. I met this other women a couple of years ago. She's quite special. I never told her how I feel but as the Chaka Kahn song through the fire goes for a chance to be with I'd gladly risk it all. Is this normal?.
It is normal,but a very dangerous move.
Grass is always greener on the other side,because there is more sh*t.
What if in a few months/years time you decide this one is not your soulmate too ?? Be happy and contend with what you have and you will create less problems for yourself.
Totally normal to always want what you can't (or shouldn't) have.
But sometimes when you do get it it's not what you thought...
As I've said several times on here, I believe one can have several soul mates over one's lifetime. A relationship that was "perfect" at 20 may not be the same 10 years or so later. We all grow and change at different rates and quite often couples grow apart.
I would suggest that you end this relationship before you begin a new one. It often spoils a relationship that could have been incredible, by sneaking around and lying to your partner. Don't "risk" anything; make a choice.