Does your partner know how many people you've had sex with?

My partner thinks I've been with 3 girls, but actually it's more like 25, I can't remember exactly how many.

How many of you are in a similar situation?

So the question is, does your partner know how many people you've had sex with?

Yes - I'm male 8
No - I'm male 2
Yes - I'm female 6
No - I'm female 6
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  • howaminotmyself

    Yes, why would I lie? If my partner didn't like the number, or I didn't like his number, we should probably deal with that. If we don't, then how can we expect to be true partners?

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  • To reveal how many people you have slept with could potentially indicate how promiscuous you are. There is nothing wrong with being honest. To me, it displays naievety when I discover that a girl I'm falling for admits how many guys she fucked. It may not bother some people but to me it is an intellectual matter. I never put my dick in someone just for fun and I never had one night stands. I would expect the same amount of self respect from a girl I would like to have a relationship with. Sex is what you make it and Love is what you make it.

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  • dom180

    I think this is something you should be honest about for your own sake, in case it comes back to bite you later. I think you have a right to conceal it, but lying about it is dangerous business.

    And yes, but only because the answer was zero.

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  • Yes, my husband does know how many previous sexual partners I've had (it's not many). I told him very early on in our relationship; he didn't ask though.

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    • I just wanted to add..

      I was my husband's first and he was honest enough to tell me before we were ever intimate.

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  • charli.m

    If I had a partner, then yes, if he wantes to know, he would know. I like to hope he knew I wouldn't be concerned what number he had been with, either.

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  • Jeaneathean

    It should not matter, but my lady has had many more 'partners' than me. We are both fine with that. Just part of a normal honesty conversation with new lover, surely?

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