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So I’ve had this male friend for a few months now and I’ve subtly made it obvious to him I like him. Overtime he’s not replying my texts anymore or he’s replying really late, he’s talking about other girls more to my other male friends, we don’t really hit each other up anymore because once he stood me up and he just doesn’t seem like he cares anymore? Does this mean he doesn’t like me?
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He may not be into you because he sees you as a friend and doesnt want to jeopardize the friendship if things don't work out romantically. Or he could know you're into him and guys generally want a gitl that takes some work to get with.
I've been in the same situation, either he doesn't want to ruin the friendship or he might feel the same and just doesn't realize what you're getting at. I think you should try to tell him or at least flirt to make it even more obvious.
''I’ve subtly made it obvious to him'' is an oxymoron, maybe he just doesn't get it, try being more obvious about it
Its okay to be afraid of rejection. But its the best shot you have to make it clear to him. Once you have his response you'll know your answer instead of playing little games that last weeks. I'd say its better knowing hes not interested and move on instead of dying to know what he's thinking.