Does this make me bisexual?

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I've known for awhile that I've had a fat fetish for the male body...that really what I mainly focus on, I don't care for penis or their a$$ nor do I ever think of being the dominate one that's disgusting, I've always fantasized about being receive and I don't really imagine myself, rather a women doing it with a heavy guy and in pornography I focus on the fat.

I think I'm bi, I do have an interest in girls and even though I'm not as often aroused as I used to be by them, I wouldn't mind falling love or having a girlfriend. I've always just been so nervous and I don't really have confidence in myself, though I know I've had sexual thoughts for women and when I'm comfortable its more easy to be aroused I guess...Though I don't really like guys though...no emotional attraction nor have I ever thought about other body types then fat...Does this make me bi or what...?

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    Nothing "makes you" bi, straight, gay, or whatever. Those are just words used to DESCRIBE what we feel. You're just you, and only you know exactly what that's like. The labels are just a linguistic tool to simplify the feelings in our speech.

    You are you, and you like what you like. I don't think there's a solid word out there for someone who feels kinda like they like one gender, but they sometimes think about the other, but they've only been in relationships with one sex, but they sometimes wish they were the other sex, etc. etc.

    People are far too complex to be summed up by a word like "bi". And no matter what word you end up using, you're still the same person you were long before that word ever came along and started making you question yourself.

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    • taciturn
      12 years ago

      This is what I was trying to express in that "do your thoughts make you a ______ person" poll. I'm gonna quote the shit out of you.

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  • taciturn
    12 years ago

    It would help if you actually told us what your gender is.

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