Does this make me a bad person?

wateva i do it all the time

Funny you should say that. I have a friend who is with someone and this is my exact theory. HEe speaks of her as if he had to be with her. Their relationship is toxic though beacause she's incredibly jealous and I don't like her for making my friend fell bad constantly. Either way to answer your question. Break up and you'll find someone eventually. Being lonely won't be a problem you probably have friends and family who care about you and that's all you'll need for now.

I was a bit like that. I needed more self-confidence because I was too scared to take a risk so I just stuck with people who were easy to be with. Sometimes it takes a while but you will find someone who your suited to. Especially if you take a risk. Practice your flirting or something :-)

yes, it is unfair to the other person. i understand about not wanting to be alone, but just stop to think how you would feel if someone were to use you in that way. i suggest finding someone whom you actually do like, because you would honestly be much happier with a real relationship and you wont have to feel like a bad person anymore.

yes, it is wrong

Of Courseh >No yuh just tryin 2 find company .

not a bad person. No self esteem though. know too many girls like this...

While it may be normal, I don't really think it's right. These things always end badly. Get out and be your own person! (even though it's not always fun) But then again, I'm a kind of all or nothing person, so... Just do what you want to!

..Yah, you're using them.

Yes it's wrong because if they were to find out, they'd feel heartbroken as the whole thing was a lie and probably would be a bit more paranoid in future relationships too. Plus, you'd end up feel guilty about it, no question there.

You'll find someone you will like in the future, but don't crush anyone's heart like that on the way.

yes its wrong for both you. you can be with someone that makes you really happy. too bad you're wasting your time with someone you don't really like.

well i can see how people date others just for the comfort and to feel loved.. but if u dont love them then your wasting your time. wait for the right person to come that you actually like and start a relationship. your only going to end up hurting this person if they really like you.

Well, in my opinion, yeah. You shouldn't be with someone because you're lonely. You should be with them because you care about them. And, if your partner really cares about you, they could get hurt finding this out.

If you are feeling that way, move on. Find someone you like.

Wow. Funny you should ask that question. I am actually doing the same thing at the moment. The only reason I am with this person is simply because i am lonely. I then start to think how am I ever going to find someone else if i allow this to continue. We definitely are there because we are both lonely.

I did that once, when it ended i was glad. I got really bored of them.

i agree with everyone else. yes and no. yes because you're basically being selfish about it and keeping them there for your own comfort, and no because morally its mean.

I don't like any of my friends, either.
Groucho used to say he'd never be a member of a club that had low enough standards to accept him.
Maybe you don't like you friends because you can't respect them for accepting you.

yes no maybe

yes and no

yeah thats wrong

Wow, you wan to be with someone you don't like.
It doesn't realy make you a bad person, just illogical realy. If she happens to like you it would make you nice alittle, and the lonliness is probably getting to you so, yeah.

yes and no. yes because you have company no becase you do not like them. if you'r lonely find somone you like to hang out with.