Does she have the right?

If you're a minor, speak to your school counselor. You can also go to www.nospank.net for advocacy.

Good, quick reads recommended by professionals:

Plain Talk About Spanking
by Jordan Riak,
The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children
by Tom Johnson,
NO VITAL ORGANS THERE So They Say
by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.

Some of these comments scare the hell out of me.

What you're describing is ABUSE. Nothing less.

well it depends on what you are doing that she considers to be bad behaviour. i would love to bring back corporal punishment. kids nowadays have no respect for their peers and they know that they can get away with anything if they threaten their parents that they will go to the cops. kids have way too many rights. the whole point of growing up is knowing what you can and cant do and what is right and wrong and kids wont stop doing the wrong things if you cant punish them for it. im not talking about beating the crap out of kids or smacking them with a cane, just a smack on the bum when they are young to make them understand that when they do bad things, there are consequences.

kill her.

Slowly

I don't know what to say about the different responses I've read here, but being spanked is not a normal or healthy discipline regimen. I grew up, quite literally, on the end of my fathers belt, and it didn't teach me anything but fear of my parent. You need to listen to PDeverit, Ollieo, and get some help. It also sounds like your mother needs some help as well.

I agree with the post above but suggest you go directly to the police or child protection.

Face it. You *like* being spanked.

first of all how old are you and second of all threaten her tell her your sick of her doing it so much and say that you'll defend yourself if needed that should get the message across

It depends how old you are... spanking older kids is kinda weird

Parents should not spank there kids because it leads them to be more abusive to them when they get older. And my dad use to to that shit and know he punches me and kicks me.

I don't think she's allowed to hit you, especially with an object, but unfortunately that doesn't stop many parents. What age are you?

I actually agree with sapanking, but not spanking on a regular basis. It should be used sparingly. I think it's rediculous to believe that an occasional light spanking will cause a child to become a fucked up adult, as long as the parent is careful not to overdo it, such as in your case. See, in the case of your mother,I would say that the use of spanking is done way way too much.

Next time she spanks u be like hit me hit me one more time i dare. does it feel good? I bet it does...... It works most of the time u just gotta provoke them and mock them so they feel really guilty and like shit so then they usually stop hitting u. Or u cAn go all weird fetish style and freak her out that way idk ur call. Although the 2nd one seems more fun

just get on ur knees and lick ur moms feet, and call her mistress and beg her not to hurt you,cos ur just a slave

I've sort of been in your situation,
but it was more being beaten for small things,
its not normal!
But sadly I can't help you more than that,
I've never actually managed to sort it,

But think of it this way,
hopefuly soon you'll be able to leave home?

I don't know because it's only a wooden spoon and hairbrush right? For me, it wouldn't matter too much as long as I don't get bruises, don't feel pain or much pain, and it's not on the head. Not the head- please and thank you- I need to preserve my brain cells. Enough of them died during my childhood. Hey...at least it isn't as bad as my dad.

Good, hard regular spankings will do you good. Your mom spanks you because she loves you and wants you to learn responsibility. If you don't want to get spanked don't mess up. If you do mess up it's your mom's job to bruise your bottom.

all perents should spank their kids because if you don't they will disrespect you and not listen when they are older. getting spanked at a young age will grow respect.