Ask Your Question today
Im wondering if my pussy is too tight for sex? My bf tries to finger me but it hurts and we stop. I have tried myself and it hurts a bit but not as bad. Am I too small for sex? Will it rip me apart and make my vagina loose and ugly? Can guys tell the difference between a loose and tight one? Is any of this normal?
The head of a penis is soft and smooth and can smoosh to fit into you, so it should not hurt as much as a finger. If you're not wet use a lubricant (or spit) so that the finger or penis slids in and out easily. It's you mucles around your vagina that make it feel small and tight, not the actual size of your vagina, so unless you have really really really narrow hips (like you havent started puberty or have a condition that stunted your growth) there should plenty of room for a penis. Yout Hymen will probibly tear from sex or vigorus fingering and may hurt/bleed, but this won't change you vagina's looks in a negative way. A hymen usualy looks like a unatractive fleshy ring or web around and in the opening of the vagina, so loosing it will make you look better, though you have to look close to notice anyways.
Also, make sure it's your Vagina and not your pee hole ;P OUCH!
okay well all my guy friends say that they "stretched out" their girlfriends and that now their girlfriends vaginas are not as nice as when they first had sex with them. so im basically scared that it will become ugly and loose if i start to have sex...
I do not think your vagina is going to become a gigantic gaping lips that sag down to your knees though. If that what you are thinking. Though child birth has ripped open a few women.
I think they become looser when you do it more. However I think a female who does not have sex would be tighter since nothing has been inside it yet. Not sure if I am explaining it well. Like if you use something a lot it is not as tight as when you first got it.
Finish 7th grade first. But if you must, yes, it's probably gonna hurt. Some vaginas get so big, to quote Stewie Griffin, it's like "throwing a hotdog down a hallway."
Just don't over due it everyday & it will tighten naturally. Also after it's been opened it will feel better for you durning sexual acts. Idk maybe you're too young?