Does my ex deserve an in-person "goodbye"?
Okay so a little backstory, i dated this guy for a few months and before we started dating i probably wasnt the best candidate for him because i had been talking to other guys besides him, but the only reason i did that was because i had no idea he wanted more than a friendship (he never stopped holding this against me even though i changed and was only with him for the entire duration of our relationship). we got into many arguments after he found this out and we split ways for about a month but ended up talking again and started dating. we dated for about a month or two and one night he got me drunk and he ended up having sex with me while i was clearly incoherent and i had even said "i dont even know what's happening".. and then later on we slowly began being more sexual but after that one night i was never very comfortable for the next couple of times we did it. i ended up telling him after a while that i just didnt want to have sex because i wasnt comfortable with by sexuality and it wasnt something i wanted our relationship to revolve around.
so this turns into a 9 hour argument (over text) which ultimately came down to his stance being "i cant be in this relationship if you dont want to have sex" because he "needs it" and so i said "i cant give you what you need" and he left me. then he tried crawling back to me but i told him my position still stands and i'm not changing it and so after, he basically sends this long message accusing me of being with another guy in my own apartment complex for months (which i still have no idea who it is or how he came to that conclusion) and he also tells me that he has been cheating on me for months and he's moving away with her, and he says that he hadnt felt anything for me for months and i was "just something fun to do or hang out with" and basically says i'm a shit person and i should kill myself, then blocks me on everything so i cant respond.. but now that i'm visiting his town (where i used to live) to see my sister for her birthday, he posted on all his social media so i can see for me to call him or text him so that i can say goodbye in person "as friends". this makes no sense to me because he told me all that fucked up shit when i had done nothing wrong except just not want to have sex anymore until i was ready.. and i dont think he deserves a goodbye in person for what he said to me and how he made me feel, but what do u guys think? i have one day to decide before i drive back home and he moves away in a month.