Does my boyfriend secretly want my very attention hungry friend

sexually powerful....yes...thats exactly it!! She gives these squinty eyes and tries to real guy in. She got what she wanted and that is what bothers me sooo much!! She gets the attention from everyones men but never mine...he couldnt stand her....so I felt he was trying to be nice. Ive been stewing all weekend about this!! I feel he fell into her trap and flirted back...exactly!! Not sure I want a man that would disrespect me that way especially knowing how I feel about her and the shit she pulls off!! She wins!!! She is avoiding me now and I believe its cause she was flirting with him all night and knows she started this. She isnt a girl I normally hang with but is close by for the summer...Im so mad at him that he gave that to her!! Im so hurt he had no control....I have never seen or heard of him doing something like that before...infact just the oposite so y her!!!!

shes not your friend. you said it yourself, that shes jealous of you. shes trying hard to sabotage your relationship bcuz shes jealous. it sounds like shes got issues bcuz she jealous of what u have, yet she wont go after an unattached man, which is the way to have a happy relationship. she is betraying you selfishly and in my opinion, needs a shrink. shes not a true friend. get rid of her.

She is not my best friend....He couldnt stand her and actually told me that she flirts with him and he gives he nothing back therefore this is why she cant stand him. she tells everyone he is not good for me...I think because she wants him. I confronted her about grabbing his hand and taking him off into the crowd and she says she doesnt remember...convenient. Everyone says ther is no way he is attracted to her and that it was innappropiate yes but not to end it with him because he loves me so much and she wins that way but I have so many thoughts rolling in my head. I wonder what happened when she took him off and I wonder why he did that and was he attracted or turned on by her flirting....it all makes me sick. He told me right away when he came back from the crowd she pulled him into that she took him by his hand and he said to her....y are you trying to cause problems with me and my girlfiend...y are you trying to make her jealous....so why would he then go and cup her boob....I worry he wants to have sex with her or wanted to that night and was turned on by the flirting. I really want to end it but hes been away at work for a week since....I will see him tonight and she will be around so not by my choice so I will see how he acts...he has a ton of work to do and he needs to talk to her and straighten things out!!!

You cant grab another girls breast in a relationship. But i bet your boyfriend has had some fantasies about your best friend. He was living one out when he grabbed her cupped breast

Ok here is what needs to happen. First never ever talk to that girl ever again. She is not your friend. She is a dirty whore that only cares about herself. Break off the "friendship" immediately. She has no respect for you or your bf. Second break up with your boyfriend. Seriously why on earth would you stay with a guy that touched another girls boobs? Really? Leave him and move on.

These two people are probably very important in your life, but it's time to move on. It's hard but you will find a new much better life. Start by setting goals for yourself and taking really good care of yourself. Then find a guy that will respect you. Tell him your story and if he replies "that is just horrible, what a scumbag boyfriend, I would never ever do anything like that nor would I want to" then you know you have a keeper. Next evaluate your friendships. Are you hanging out with any immature slutty girls. Hopefully not but if you are keep them away from your boyfriend. You probably should be keeping your friends away from him anyway because your relationship is separate and if you are looking for a serious relationship it's just you and the guy... Not friends too.

It sounds like your b/f has a hard time controling his urges and your friend there..... well she sounds like no matter who you date she will flirt with them.
I agree with Matiu, talk to your friend; she knows what she is doing - so if she gives you any of that "oh well I didnt know you felt that way" BS - dont buy it. She wants attention and she feels sexually powerful that she controled your boyfriend like that.
Also, I hope that your a teenager, because if you and your b/f are in your 20's - he needs to have MUCH better control over his urges and it becomes inexcusable.

Okay, so your boyfriend is being a little bit irresponsible. But why have you remained friends with an attention WHORE like that?

Dont try to just blame your boyfriend for everything. Damn. Confront this friend of yours firmly!

i would say that she was trying to make you jelous and was trying to take your man thats why i never bring my friends around my man ever if my friends want to hang out i will go and meet them outside i dont play those games and my friends dont need to meet my man at all ive been with my man for 4yrs and i dont need friends trying to take my man besides my friends no better i will fuck them up badly so what you need to do is dont be her friend and dont bring her to your house or around your man again or something is going to happen you need to cut her loose and stop bringing females to your house and this wont happen if that was me and my man touch her breat oh god that girl will be in a coma and he will be dickless i cut that shit off so dont do that again and you need to speak up and tell her if she does that again you are gonna fuck her up no games let her no and your man no you aint playing.

i wouldnt exactly say that your boyfriend wants her but he was definitely flirting back. I would talk to this friend of yours though because she is out of line to be flirting with your boyfriend. a real friend wouldnt be like that. as for your boyfriend i would just talk to him about it and make sure he knows how you feel about the entire situation