Does my bf really love me?

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Okay sooo my bf thinks my friends are hot(hotter then me)made out with another girl while we were dating, said he was gonna have sex with this girl because she was the hottest girl he had ever met in his life(while we were dating) doesnt know why he loves me.... has never dated a girl that looks like me before(hes into skinny girls and im kinda thick, not fat but thick i mean strong i play a lot of sports) .... is this a normal relationship?!?!?1

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Obviously he doesn't love you and it doesn't sound like you're in a committed relationship at all.

    It sounds like you're fuck buddies and you want more while he doesn't.

    If you're not happy and this is why FWB doesn't work then get out because clearly he has no regard for you.

    I've tried dating girls that weren't that hot and other much hotter girls try to get on me. Even though I wanted to fuck and hookup with the much hotter girls I didn't cheat on my girlfriend nor did I tell her I wanna fuck her much hotter friends that are trying to get on me when she steps out of the room.

    Why?

    Because I'm not a selfish piece of trash and I didn't want to hurt my average looking not so fun 'girlfriend'. We ended up breaking up not much later and I could do whatever I wanted without stabbing her in the back.

    We weren't right for each other at least I wasn't happy and the relationship went stale for weeks/months and I knew I was done but hadn't told her yet.

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  • chronsweet
    14 years ago

    i am sorry that you have to experience that kind of 'relationship'. i would have to agree with bobert that this doesn't even sound like a relationship, it sounds like he is just using you. You need to get to the bottom of his thoughts and that is only if YOU decide he is worth the time of day because to me, I don't think I would give him two seconds of my time.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Oh, "time of day" - ha, used same expression - true though.

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  • Bobert
    14 years ago

    "is this a normal relationship?!?!?1" - I don't even think it is a relationship...

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  • mermaid
    14 years ago

    No, that doesn't sound healthy.
    He should cheat on you or plan to cheat on you in any way.
    If he loved you, he wouldn't be doing that.

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  • Thorolf
    8 years ago

    Dump him, or you're in for a heartbreaking.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Break up with him

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  • Wreckedems
    12 years ago

    Is that a serious question?

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    13 years ago

    maybe he is just kidding.

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  • rulerofthenight
    13 years ago

    doesn't sound liek he cares about you, If he is making out with other girls and saying their hotter than you not only does he not care enough about your feelings to at least hide it he doesn't respect you enough( kinda like that guy on here that callls his fiance a cow ) and he is doing this because you are letting him do it.You deserve soo much better than that. Don't be a doormat sweety!!!!

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  • XJayX
    13 years ago

    Um...he made out with a girl and wanted to have sex with her and you're still with him? Come on, you can find a guy way better than some dirty cheater. If cheats like this, than I'm sorry to say he probably doesn't love you as much as you love him.

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  • korn3654
    14 years ago

    Your in for a lot heart break with that clown.

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  • Blissical
    14 years ago

    You both need to grow up. Well at least youre honest to each other. And well look if its bothering you go talk to him or something. You have a brain. USE IT.

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  • AppleBlossom
    14 years ago

    get over him. P.S There is no such thing as the "love emotion" Look it up. It is all scientific. Sorry I don't want to explain how your body works with your brain. But Good luck dumping him. have fun with it too!

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    • dollcandy
      14 years ago

      He's a jerk.

      And @appleblossom of course there's such a thing as love but love isn't an emotion it's unconditional. I know it exsists b/c no matter what happens I just can't stop loving my bf. It's actually more like a disease...but it exists non the less.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    No. And why do you even have to ask? Where's your judgement and self respect?

    Dump him. Then go to a counsellor to discuss why you would even give a guy like that the time of day. As it is, to me, you seem at risk of abusive relationships.

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  • gabface19
    14 years ago

    Not to me. I think deep down inside you know this isn't right.
    Even though it's the year 2010 and people have freedom of speech and expression, it STILL isn't normal for a dude to
    Tell his gf about the hottest chicks he wants to bang (at least not so directly AND seriously... think back and make sure he wasn't kidding or what I'm saying right now doesn't count haha)
    Or to make out with others all nonchalantly...

    I'm sorry if it sounds mean, but maybe you should ask him what he thinks about where you guys stand as a couple.. perhaps he is under the impression you guys are in one of those "open relationships"

    Also, consider how you feel about him. Do those things bother you? Do you love him? If so, try to get him to settle down a little so he doesn't go around and have you catching mono or worse you know?

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  • Duke
    14 years ago

    Fuck no. Tell em to get his shit and get the fuck out. And tell em to leave the door unlocked for the next guy!!!

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