Does it always mean you have daddy issues when you like older men?

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Okay... so you grew up in a single parent home but you had other male role models around - like your grandpa, uncles - whatever... and you grow up and blossom into a beautiful young woman who iobviously has an effect on older men and you dont mind - is it a symptom of underlying daddy issues?

I judge these couples when I see them togther 22
I think its cute 29
No 119
Older men please advise (Add a comment) 11
Yes 41
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  • justanordinarygirl
    13 years ago

    Some people just naturally like older men. For example, me. I would prefer an older man and I have no daddy issues. Super normal.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I guess it's not that you like older men, but why you like older men. The deeper reasons will give you your answer.

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  • Malice27
    13 years ago

    honey, I've always dated older men and I grew up with my dad always being around....I just prefer older men....their so damn sexy....mmmmm

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  • JoJoJoy21
    12 years ago

    I like older men. It's a preference. I've dated guys my age and they're just not mature enough. Nothing wrong with it :)

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  • TieDiedSuperstar
    13 years ago

    There are women out there who like older men? Maybe I still got a shot... better get my deodorant...

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    • baby_princess
      13 years ago

      Lol salt and pepper hair is back with a vengence, thanks to george clooney! So older men have certainly become more coveted

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  • wildman8912
    13 years ago

    Being an older man, I seem to attract more than my fair share of younger women my way. I think many women enjoy a strong confiden matter of fact scenario that comes with an older guy. I have had a number of women say, wow this is so much fun and so hassle free.

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    • baby_princess
      13 years ago

      Older men aren't easily decipherable, I haven't sussed him out properly yet. I totally like that he's so business minded and goal orientated and hard working (but on the other hand it irks me just a little) - when do I protest for more time , when don't I.

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  • notsonorm2011
    13 years ago

    You like who you like - I've always liked the older man and they have always liked me - Its just life - dont worry 2 much about it just enjoy

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  • Draiman
    9 years ago

    I just turned 40 and It's hard for me to find younger women because I'm living around the bible belt. I work in the entertainment industry and have always been around younger women. I've dated women around my age but they've been duds. Maybe I should relocate...lol.

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  • la_la_la_la
    11 years ago

    I love older men. I love old rock, blues & folk & it seems to be an older man thing.

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  • sultrylover
    12 years ago

    Older men are HOT! I've dated some guys younger than me or around my age. And let me tell you, doll-they have NOTHING that I want. Older men make me feel safe. And did I mention they're GREAT in bed ;-) Enjoy it girl.

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  • brio
    12 years ago

    You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

    I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.

    The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.

    So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)

    Write me: atomdebris(at)gmail(dot)com

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  • tacotuesday
    12 years ago

    Ive always been attracted to older men. Mmm the ones my age just dont really cut it for me aye. But this is the first I have heard about it being related to daddy issues? Which I find interesting coz Ive never had a dad but I dont think tht is the reason behind me liking older guys at all

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  • BlueAlice
    12 years ago

    I generally think it's gross. Younger women and older men being together for sex I can totally understand... but not for love.

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