Does he care about me or no?

Okay lets separate the bad from the good and distinguish if the guy I've been seeing for almost a year cares about me at all and having me around. If so, then based on how strong I feel about him, I would try and continue to make it work but without taking as serious as I have been unless he's ready to take it seriously. If he doesn't, then so be it, I'm done lets move on. So starting off with the negatives: 1) He doesn't know how to express himself. I think this makes a huge impact because it would confuse me whether he doesn't care enough to put effort or he just doesn't know how to. 2) he always likes talking about himself. He barely asks me how was my day or what have I been doing. 3) He doesn't pay attention to me when I do speak. Its like he doesn't take me seriously. 4)Every time I asked him where do we stand, he never would give me a straight up answer. Even when i would say just tell me if we're friends w benefits and thats it its fine, he wouldn't give in. 5) He treats me differently privately and in public. We can have a really good day and when friends show up, its like nothing happened. 6) He does flirt with other girls and apparently I found out he's been messaging this girl across the country who he had a thing with before me. He tells her things that I never heard him tell me.

Okay now on to the positives: 1) He has told his family about me. His mom supposedly asks about me and I've talked to his parents before on the phone. 2) We'll hang out in his room just watch movies and netflix without having sex. We can hang out consecutively and not have sex. 3) He does pay when we go out like to eat. I have paid half or all sometimes but most of the time, its been him. 4) This one's confusing and I think it sums it all up. He bought me a gift randomly, not to mention not a really cheap one. When he gave it to me we weren't on good terms and he was like "oh here's your gift, yeah its a stfu present." Because he has this certain item and we fought over it one time because I was using it not thinking he was going to make a big deal out of it, he bought my own. I wasn't sure how to take that. I was like thanks but no thanks if that's what this gift means?

So his own ways of doing things have made a huge impact on us in addition to how much I like him. If I didn't like him so much to the point where I don't want anyone else, just him forever and I'll do everything i can to make it work, then I wouldn't care as much. But right now I am torn on how he feels about me, and based on whether he does care but he shows it in a sucky way or he doesn't care, I'll know what to do with him; keep working it out with him as much as I can or finish it.