Does being kinky mean this?

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Does being kinky, or having a tendency to enjoy sex more or be aroused more unique objects, body parts or acts cause you to enjoy vanilla sex or vanilla erotic stimuli less?

For example if you have a foot fetish, does sex without feet visable result in less pleasure for you? Or are you aroused less by a topless women when you can't see her feet(if your a guy) than you would be if you didn't have the foot fetish?

You don't enjoy vanilla less, you just enjoy kinky more! 9
Nope, it's not a thing 1
Yes it does, to a very noticeable extent 2
Yes it does, but only if you are very kinky 1
Yes, but a very small, hardly significant amount 0
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  • curious-bunny
    4 years ago

    Yea biting, scratching, choking, hair pulling, spankings, tickles it just isn't the sane without these things at least one of them, personally i adore having my hair pulled, being spanked and chocked especially getting slammed agaisnt walls and just generally being dominated. I used to hate being chocked due to an incident with my brother when growing up but my boyfriend got me into it and now i love it. I crave it tbh. Straddling a guy is pretty damn arousing to I admit

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Man, whoever gets to have sex with you sounds hella lucky. Good for you.

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      • curious-bunny
        4 years ago

        Haha thank you, I have been told that befo re, someday men willing to pay will be able to enjoy me and all my submissive tendencies

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          Man your making horny now would you stop it! Me and submissive women love to go hand in hand doing hella kinky shit. But its so hard to find women who like to explore, if you know what I mean. I don't have one or two fetishes that I'm like crazy about, but I love all sorts of things, so the only dealbreker is not liking anything but vanilla or wanting to try reasonably safe and consensual kinky shit at least once. Now my question for you is how would you recommend a guy like myself (20yrs old) go about pursuing an expirimental kinky relationship with a woman. I have had two solid vanilla relationships going in the past and both got mad and left when some of my desires to try things were brought up.

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          • curious-bunny
            4 years ago

            I understand my biggest kink is easily that I adore being treated as a pet, especially head scratches oh my god they feel good. Anyways i am the worst to ask that. I'm stick in a relastionship that's basically dead and sexless. He hates my adventuresnes and that ivlikevbeing seen. And I could go on. I really have no reccomendation I'm sorry. Maybe go to alot of brunches? Outside of that I got nothing I'm sorry.

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            • Doesnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              That's fine mate! It didn't hurt to ask. Good luck on your situation also.

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  • IrishPotato
    4 years ago

    I like strawberries with sugar on them. It tastes really nice.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Ohh! I may or may not have just climaxed! That is some hella kinky shit right there. You mean strawberries as in either a ball sack, a clitoris or a set of anal beads, and sugar as in either semen, piss, enema fluid after being released, or drool from a ball gag right? Classic analogy right there mate! I'm proud of you irishpatato. I am OP BTW.

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      • IrishPotato
        4 years ago

        Oh hi.

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          So I'll take it your not the hella kinky type then? Your missing out big time mate! Also why the fuck did you comment on here about your fucking breakfast? This is a post asking a serious question about kinky shit.

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          • IrishPotato
            4 years ago

            Because I felt like it.

            Also, do you really consider cum eating kinky?

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            • Doesnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              Not by itself, but it depends on your definition. I wouldn't consider it kinky though, but it could easily play a role in a kinky activity. Catch my drift mate?

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    4 years ago

    erotic is when you bring a feather to bed

    kinky is when you bring the whole chicken

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Oh gosh. That changes things a little bit. Thanks for bringing that up guys. I'm totally straight. Makes me look like a dumbass for asking her/him for advice though now. Lol

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  • Asatchi
    4 years ago

    It's a slippery slope

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      4 years ago

      yall gots a fetish for my driveway?

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Hahahaha! Your one of the funniest people on here. Lol!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Care to elaborate? Like where did you vote on the poll and why?

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    4 years ago

    I like slapping her in the face during sex

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Note weird shit from you, not surprising though mate! Do women let you do that or what? I'm not trying to judge but on other posts you said you liked your sex toys used and you like blow up dolls so I am quite curious. I am OP BTW.

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        4 years ago

        Yeah my girl is in to it. I was being silly about the blowup dolls I dont like that. We use to make videos and do camming and I'd practically rape her on cam.😋

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          Wow good for you mate! You so had me with the blowup doll shit. I was like what the fuck? Is this even real? Lol, I guess I am easily fooled.

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          • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
            4 years ago

            Yeah the MGTOW dudes you can find them on youtube. They fuck robots and shit and complain about women. Its sad but they are always very undesirable but blame it on the women. Check em out theyyre HILARIOUS

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            • Doesnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              No thanks mate

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    I enjoy biting and scratching during sex. Now it kinda straddles the vanilla line because of it.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      I'm a bit confused here mate. Are you saying it's kinky and you enjoy vanilla less or are you considering your preferences vanilla?

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